I stupidly slept with my boyfriends older brother and now?!


Question: I stupidly slept with my boyfriends older brother and now!?
He wants me to continue to have sex with him at least once a week!. He's threatened to tell him if I don't comply!. I didn't even think he was gay and now he's like really pushy and wants to do me all the time!. What do I do!?!?!? I don't want my boyfriend to find out!. He MUST NEVER FIND OUT EVER!Www@Answer-Health@Com


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The only way out is to own up to your boyfriend and take your chances!. It can't be any worse than what you're going through now and he's bound to find out eventually!.

We all make mistakes!. Fortunately, most of them aren't fatal!.
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It looks to me like you have to tell the truth to your boy friend!. I would also let him know what his lovely older brother did to you and him, you can not let him black mail you, because he will never let you go!. I was wondering does your boy friend know his brother gay, if not the older brother might not say any thing after all!. Drop him in the c r a p first see how he likes it!. If your boy friend love you he might be able to talk this one out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You've got three choices:

- You can comply with your boyfriend's older brother's sexual demands and completely lose your self-respect (and your partner, once he finds out what is going on);
- You can face the music, tell your partner and 'fess up to what happened and what is going on, and confront his brother directly (and then plan on many sessions with a relationship counselor to deal with the breach of trust your partner will have for the infidelity);
- You can break up with your partner, which means his brother can no longer blackmail you!.

None of these is going to be terribly palatable; but with at least one of these choices you may still end up with a relationship and your self-respect!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

All gay guys are promiscuous!. You couldn't keep to just one guy, I bet your BF doesn't & neither will his brother!. As you don't want the once weekly with the brother he's quite likely to tell, in fact it's quite probable he'd tell anyway whatever you agree to do!.
Best way is to tell the truth!.
If you can't face that you'll be stuck with lies forever!. If you become a successful liar you'll find it becomes a compulsive behaviour to the extent you tell lies even when you don't need to!.
Begin by talking with your BF about his brother's sexuality & play it by ear to see how you feel he's likely to respond when you tell him!. If all else fails & you end up lying, then the relationship is doomed anway!. If so, you may just as well tell the truth & there's a fair chance your BF will love you enough to accept the situation anyway!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You are in a dilemma, that's for sure!. I think the best way for you is to confess to your boyfriend how you got in this bind!. Don't let your boyfriends brother blackmail you any more, don't become a victim!. Take the initiative and the risk of angering your boyfriend!. The other way will just dig yourself deeper!. Perhaps your boyfriend already knows how manipulative his brother is!. He may also consider to judge you less harshly because this was his brother you slept with, someone like him, not some total stranger!. Tell him your side of the story first before his brother gets his ears!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Chalk it up to a life experience!. Your boyfriend will definitely find out, if he doesn't know already!. The older brother is just being an abuser, wanting to control you and use you as a sexual relief!. Tell him where to go, and tell your boyfriend you screwed up and that it was with his brother!. Chances are if the older brother is doing the same thing to him too!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well!.!. looks like your in a pickle!.!.!. and if you and your boyfriend are EVER going to work out!. he has to k now!.!.!. you can't one day down the road be getting married and have to worry about his brother ( who will probably going to be the best man ) standing next time him with this huge secret!.!. and then 20 years into your marrige slip out and then you have kids and get divored, and you want to kill yourself becuase you weren't honest with him to begin with!.!.!.!.

so!. in conclusion!. Just tell him!.!. hes going to break up with you!. but you kinda deserve it!.!.!. but make sure you take his brother down with you!. its just as much his fault as it is you!. especially now thats hes practically black mailing you!. which is against the law!.!.

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Thats a hard one!. maybe you should threaten your boyfriends brother with accusing him of rape!. Have you heard all the adverts that were on the radio about 2 years ago!. 'unless you get a definite yes, its classed as rape'!. Maybe that would shut him up!. Depending on how your boyfriend would react you could always come clean, you never know it might even bring you closer when your boyfriend knows what a tough time you are having!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

And the brother has you in his grip and that will get worse!.
Better tell your boyfriend you slept with him once by mistake and now being blackmailed!.by that brother:confront him with that fact together!.
Hope it will work out for the best:but tell it to them together in the same room!.
See what happens then!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Eventually he will tell his brother anyway so you might as well be honest and beat him to the punch!. The brother will soon get bored with sleeping with you and then he'll tell him!. Do you really believe he'll keep it a secret!? He'll feel guilty at some point and tell him!. If you loose your boyfriend it's just what you have to take for your mistake!. Good Luck!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

your a guy!. yicks so they are all gay!? i guess you have to say who was better in bed!. maybe you can spill the beans and have a three some !. lol i bet mom and dad would like to come in on that!. thats just nasty!. you need to break up with both of them and find a woman!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

every action has consequences!. Now you've discovered that!.

You can try to do this 'undercover', but it'll be blown soon enough!. You can tell your boyfriend!. And you may get dumped!.

So, maybe the next time you'll use some good judgement!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Two choices as far as I can see!.
1!. You confess all to your boyfriend
2!. You swear that nothing ever happened between you and the brother and that he is trying to blackmail you because you refused to have a relationship with him!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

If you are half a man, you will immediately tell him,,if you are an idiot, you will let this punk use and abuse you, and any self worth, and honesty you had will be out the window!.!.own up to you action, and being caught up in the moment!.!.be a man! not a mouse!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Never cheat, simple as that!. If you can cheat you can be cheated on, not very good for anyone!.

Treat others as you would like to be treated yourself and you can't go far wrong in life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

WELL, IF THOU CAN FIGURE OUT HOW TO HAVE A 3-WAY, THEN KEEP IT IN THE FAMILY!. NOBODY'S GONNA GET PREGNAT, SO THOU DON'T NEED TO WORRY ABOUT DEFORMED KIDS!.

DUNNO HOW THOU ART GONNA DO A 3-WAY, UNLESS THOU CAN SOMEHOW MAKE A CIRCLE!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Stand your ground and call his bluff!.

It's all you can do!.

Will you pay a price for it!? Almost undoubtedly!. Hopefully, life's lesson learned!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You have to tell your boyfriend!. At least he'll know you love him enough to do that!. Besides the worst thing you can do is lie and youu know it

so stop!.

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just stop whith the bro[refuse him if your bf dont know his bro is gay tell him say he started it and you are not doo ing it again defore his bro gets a chance !.if bf dropes you then stay away from bro toWww@Answer-Health@Com

You made your bed!.!.!.

Tell the guy you won't be blackmailed into having sex!. Do you really think he's going to tell his brother he's been doing his brother's boyfriend!? I don't think so!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sooner or later your boyfriend would find out about that and you better tell him now!. !.!.!.unless you really wanna screw both big brother and little brother!Www@Answer-Health@Com

You shouldn't off done it in the first place so its time to face the music!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You suck!. Cheaters suck!. You don't deserve your BF!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

what ever chance you had of a relationship as gone learn a lesson and move on you are greedyWww@Answer-Health@Com

shouldnt have done it in the first place,only got yourself to blameWww@Answer-Health@Com

erm!.!.!. tell the truth it will set you free!!!!!!!!!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

your a cheater!.!.the brothers an a$$hole!.!.I hope you both get what u deserveWww@Answer-Health@Com





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