Takes too long to ejaculate.?!


Question: Takes too long to ejaculate!.!?
Ever since I started having sex, I've had the opposite problem as most young guys!. It takes me a while to ejaculate!. Sometimes it happens in like 15-20 minutes but a lot of times it's more like 40!. I won't pretend that in my four years of being sexually active I've had any great sex, not even that much good sex!.

Could this be due to a hormonal thing!? My libido is not great either!.

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It may be your nerves!. For me, if I'm thinking too much and worried about wanting to finish and thinking that she probably thinks its taking too long, I get psyched out and can't finish quickly enough or at all!. Plus you may have not had sex with someone you're super attracted to!. Maybe you need to try to take it easy, and think about how it feels instead of how you're doing!. But I don't know!. And the loss of sensation because of circumcision could just be hearsay!. People who are uncircumcised often make up many cons about circumcision and vise versa!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

More than likely your problem is due to the loss of sensitivity from circumcision, which destroys 50% or more of sexual sensitivity!.

Male genital mutilation aka circumcision, ruined my sex life, it was impossible for me to achieve orgasm in normal sex!. The nerve damage caused more than the usual loss of sensitivity in my case!.

I'm restoring my foreskin, and have achieved tremendous gains in sensitivity and orgasms are more powerful than I ever dreamed possible
My libido has also increased, and it's a whole new experience!.

Circumcision is the worst hoax ever perpetrated on the male sex!.

A couple of the other guys answered that you're lucky---I know differently, the girl thinks that it's her fault that she can't bring you to orgasm, and it destroys relationships!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

There could be many factors to what you have described here!. Circumcision is one of them - a loss of sensation can make things delayed!. I assume you don't take this long to ejaculate when you are masturbating!? If not then this sounds more like a psychosexual issue - placing too much emphasis on the "performance" in question (you can do this subconsciously - ie without realising that you are concentrating on "how you are doing"), or a change in circumstances (a new partner, a new sexual position, a different environment even)!.

You haven't stated your age either, this can sometimes play a part in things!. From what you have stated I wouldn't worry too much - however if you really are concerned then there are some marvellous self-help guides and books out there that can point you in the right direction and help you overcome matters!.

Jason, RNWww@Answer-Health@Com

As much as the Ladies want a Dude who lasts long enough to bring them through, I can see that you would like to get some pleasure as well the Lady you are with!.

Some Dudes just don't feel enough through a condom to bring them much pleasure and need almost all imagination to bring them through, especially if they have been cut and the head is less sensitive!.

Imagination is a poor substitute for awesome feel good through your knob and imagination takes long, and only works if you are really built up with c um and a need to come off!.

If you have a steady girl friend, try to work with her a different method of birth control so that you won't need to use a condom!.

You will find that when sex feel shivering awesome, your desire and drive for it will sky rocket just like your own rocket!. lol!.

Hoping the best for you Man

Me! :- )Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hun, you've only been sexually active for 4 years!. Which tells me you must be young!. You need to meet the right girl, perhaps a long term relationship where the girl can really know your wants and needs sexually!. Most young women don't know exactly what to do, so be patient!. You'll one day meet someone that will blow you away!. lol no pun intended!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Contrary to what some guys may think !.!. going that long CAN reallly wear you out !.!.!.!.!.

I'd suggest that you try not masturbating for two - three days prior to a know sexual encounter !.!.!.!.!. I believe that you'll find a difference !.!.!.!.

If not; then talk to your doctor !.!.!. he can check your hormones etc and see what the physical cause , if any actually is !.!.!.!.

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lucky bastard don't rube it in our faces most of us have to get some beers in us first, or think about football, ha ha but yea seriously is not a problem just work around itWww@Answer-Health@Com

yeah all these guys dont know what they are saying, more than 15 minutes more than likely makes the girl sore/numb/achey

its called delayed ejaculation and theres nothing you can do about it

sorryWww@Answer-Health@Com

Any man who can last that long is great~! you should be proud!. But not too long!. Most men last lsess than 5 minz which kills the mood completely!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The problem is the girl, find a girl you actually like and maybe one that knows what she's doing!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

HOw can I reach you by phone!? mail !? carrier pigeon!?

We gals need more guys like you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

dude, you're lucky, wtf are you talking about!? that's not a problem! that's what women want!Www@Answer-Health@Com





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