Is my boy becoming a pervert?!


Question: Is my boy becoming a pervert!?

i caught my son peeking through the bathroom window while my wife was taking a shower!.!.I did not tell him i saw him,i just asked him what he was doing outside that night and told me that he was just looking for something!.I sometimes see him glancing at my wife's boobs when she's doing some household chores!.I know that he was spying at his step mom but i don't want to embarrass him and feel uncomfortable with her!.Should I let him stay with my ex-wife!? I don't know how to confront him because he is only 14y!.o!. Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Dude, he's 14, extremely curious, he has these hormones racing through him and he has no idea that they're there, or how much they're influencing him!. He's horny and your wife is the only female nearby!.

It's completely normal!. He wants to see a nice pair of hooters, can you blame him!?

My suggestion is to sit him down, just the two of you, and have a chat!. Tell him that you know he's going through a lot of changes, and is very curious about women!. That it's normal, and that you were once his age and the same way (ok, so maybe you weren't peeping your mom, but I'm sure you were a horny 14 yr old once too)!. Make him feel as comfortable as you can and try to open communications with him about sex!. It will feel very awkward for both of you at first, but after awhile it will get better!.

After he's comfortable, you can bring it up and say that it's not appropriate, even though you understand why he's doing it!.

Www@Answer-Health@Com

WOW -- I understand the concept of reverse Oedipal complex -- where the father feels sexually threatened by the son -- but seeing it actually written out - complete with the the feeling of threat, the willingness to do away with/send away the boy -- WOW!.

Your son is 14, he is not a threat to you!. Yes, he is interested in his step mother's body - that is NORMAL not perverted!. You shouldn't confront him frankly, he hasn't done anything wrong!. Instead, you should recognize that your reaction is abnormal -- and so is the fear of the boy "stealing" your "woman!."

If you were a friend of mine, I would strongly urge therapy -- for you, not your perfectly normal straight son!. You are not someone I actually know, but I still suggest that you consider it!.

Kindest regards,

HermesWww@Answer-Health@Com

i dont think hes a pervert, but he like anyone has the potential to!.just as long as he doent have personal feelings for his mom!. he just needs to understand how attraction works before he reacts upon it!. you need to understand that hes young and realitively new at starting puberty, he isnt fully aware of his sexuality!. all he knows is he finds the opposite sex attractive!. he needs to get involved with more girls though(not sexually just to be friends and/or date)!. i dont think he has personal feelings for any of your wives and he will grow out of this state of sexual confusion!. but as his father, you need to look out for him and explain certain things to him at the age he is!. hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well he's 14, dad!.!.don't you remember that age!? HORNY!.!.hormones are raging!.
It's not appropriate though to be checking out step mom, so you need to have a heart to heart!. I don't think he's a perv, just a normal 14year old boy!. And at that age, they happen to like boobs!. Well, I guess at any age they do!.!.HA!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wow, it's true! When you get older, you forget how you were years ago!.

Remember those days of raging hormones and curiosity!? Well there you go!. It is inappropriate but he's just curious!.

You should sit him down and tell him you saw him spying on her and looking at her and tell him its wrong!. Because even though she really isn't his mom, she is is 'mom'!.

Maybe give him some Playboy! He'll be looking at them more then your wife ;) But I don't know if you want a porn addict instead!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Its normal for him to be curious, but its not appropriate for him to be spying!. Talk to him about what is and is not appropriate behavior!. (ex!. its okay to be curious and interested and fantasize, but its not okay to peep at ppl, especially family!.) good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Dear Captn,

While his hormones are normal, raging for a boy his age, I wouldn't encourage this behavior!. Have him join the Big Brother's program!. They encourage sports, like basketball and baseball!.

Good luck and smooth sailing to you!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Children often learn behaviors from their parents!.

So if you're peeking through the bathroom window and glancing at your wife's boobs in front of him chances are he's going to be doing it too!.
Www@Answer-Health@Com

WHY DO THOU THINK THIGH TOLD ABRAHAM TO KILL HIS SON!? YEP, THOU GUESSED IT!. HIS SON WAS PEEKING AT HIS WIFE'S GOODIES!.

WE CAN'T HAVE THAT!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Lol,its funny but normal man,he's 14 so i mean all the hormones and stuff,maybe you shouldn't have such a hot wife!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

everyone's a pervert at that age!.!. but i guess that is kind of weird!. maybe you shouldn't have picked up such a hot mama!. lol jkWww@Answer-Health@Com

don't you remember what your hormones were like as a 14 year old!?
of course he might check out his step-momWww@Answer-Health@Com

He's in his room jacking off over her right now!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

hes horny and probably cant look at porn on da computer!.!.!.!. he'll get past it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

at that age it's quite natural!.!.
especially if his step-mom is a hot mama
Www@Answer-Health@Com

wow wow wow!!!he was looking for something!.!.it was her boobs!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

just dont leave them two togetherWww@Answer-Health@Com

they are horny at that ageWww@Answer-Health@Com





The consumer health information on answer-health.com is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007-2011 answer-health.com -   Terms of Use -   Contact us

Health Categories