Should i be in fear of my life?!
Question: Should i be in fear of my life!?
i hadnt seen my fiance in about 6 months , anyways he flew in for the week from cali for buisness and when we were having sex he was choking me, not hard but still, is this normal, do all men do it to or is he trying to kill me hahahaha eh em !?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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If he was choking you to the point where you couldn't breathe, he's a psycho!. If he just had his hand on your throat and was talking dirty to you, then he's just a freak and into rough sex, and you SHOULDN'T have anything to worry about!. If you notice any other signs that he might harm you, I would end that relationship!. I was with a guy who liked to hold my arms down over my head and would talk dirty and tell me to just "take it!." He was just a freak like that, and I loved it! As long as he's not hurting you, enjoy it!Www@Answer-Health@Com
There are some who enjoy getting choked during sex!. This and any other sex act should be done with the complete approval of the parties involved!. You should perhaps discuss with him what is and isn't cool in the bedroom!. You also should have stopped him the moment the choking started and inquired what he was doing!. Or just that you don't like it!. You should be able to stop your partner at anytime during the sex act!. My husband does not choke me during sex!. I am able to stop him at any point of sex and the same goes for him stopping me!. When I say any point I mean even right before orgasm!.
Oh and the choking could turn dangerous!. Do some exploration on the web about S&M and B&D!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Oh and the choking could turn dangerous!. Do some exploration on the web about S&M and B&D!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
that's!.!.!.not uhh!.!.!.normal as far as I know o!.o;
I don't believe he was trying to kill you, because it would've been a harsh choking then, it could be a type of fetish with him, cause I mean there are some odd fetishes out there, but!.!.!.maybe you should talk with him about it, see what that was about, because to me it sounds like a fetish but if he didn't do it because of a fetish then I'd say you might worry a bit!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't believe he was trying to kill you, because it would've been a harsh choking then, it could be a type of fetish with him, cause I mean there are some odd fetishes out there, but!.!.!.maybe you should talk with him about it, see what that was about, because to me it sounds like a fetish but if he didn't do it because of a fetish then I'd say you might worry a bit!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe he's into this kind of sex and has just come out of his shell!.
My ex used to like doing it, but he asked me before hand if it was okay!. I liked it, so long as if he were doing it too hard I knew i could trust him to stop when i asked!.
I liked feeling victimised!.
if you don't like it, tell him!. I'm sure he'll be cool about it!.
maybe you two can find another way to explore his sexual interests without you feeling insecure or uncomfortable!.
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My ex used to like doing it, but he asked me before hand if it was okay!. I liked it, so long as if he were doing it too hard I knew i could trust him to stop when i asked!.
I liked feeling victimised!.
if you don't like it, tell him!. I'm sure he'll be cool about it!.
maybe you two can find another way to explore his sexual interests without you feeling insecure or uncomfortable!.
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I am scared for you!. I think that if you told him to stop and he did not, then I would reaaaaaallly consider rethinking your relationship with him!. You may be heading for something you'd be very upset about later!.
And he is your Fiance!? Seriously - how well do you know him!?
I had someone treat me like this once and needless to say I was scared and told him so!. He seemed to come from a nice family but this guy had issues for sure!.
You should be treated with tenderness!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
And he is your Fiance!? Seriously - how well do you know him!?
I had someone treat me like this once and needless to say I was scared and told him so!. He seemed to come from a nice family but this guy had issues for sure!.
You should be treated with tenderness!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it might have been erotic asphyxiation!.!.!.the act of cutting off oxygen during sex to heighten arousal!.!.!.!.
check out:
http://en!.wikipedia!.org/wiki/Erotic_asph!.!.!.
it's not something i'd recommend!. it can be very very dangerous!. you should talk to him about it and if you feel you should break up with him, then please do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
check out:
http://en!.wikipedia!.org/wiki/Erotic_asph!.!.!.
it's not something i'd recommend!. it can be very very dangerous!. you should talk to him about it and if you feel you should break up with him, then please do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
This is not normal!.
I think he must of been frustrated but still it is not exceptable, it is violence against women!. Talk to him about it but make sure you have someone else around so he can't get angry and hurt you when you bring it up!. Hopefully you too can sort things out :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think he must of been frustrated but still it is not exceptable, it is violence against women!. Talk to him about it but make sure you have someone else around so he can't get angry and hurt you when you bring it up!. Hopefully you too can sort things out :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Choking you!?!? Oh yeah, you see that all the time, people making love, one choking the the other!. Women really prefer to be slapped around too!.
Come on, let's be real!. If the fool is choking you, stay away!. It's called Self Preservation, don't fight it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Come on, let's be real!. If the fool is choking you, stay away!. It's called Self Preservation, don't fight it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
he may have just been very excited,you know your fiancee' better than any of us will do you have reason to fear him if not then no i think your fine,I would ask him why did he do it!.!. was it OH it felt so good LOL or BI%^&* Give me sum!.!. LOLWww@Answer-Health@Com
I believe that your you need to think well the things, maybe your boyfriend feelings are frustrated, and shows it to you that way, but you need to understand it, sometimes the men we react of diverse formsWww@Answer-Health@Com
some girls really enjoy it because it adds to the role play but its kinda strange how he just did it without talking about it prior!. maybe he just wanted to be spontaneous or maybe he cheated on you with a girl that liked to be choked!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe you should both talk about you sexual likes and dislikes!.!.!.choking is a common "like" depending on how kinky you really are!.!.!.communication is really important with every aspect of a relationship!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
thats strange, guys dont usually do that!. in fact, they dont do that at all!. either, break it off now cause you could be in danger , or ask him about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ok i would be lsightly worried there!. have you spoken to him about it!? has he mentioned it!. i think that is a little weird!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe he's gotten into some weird kinky stuff!.!.!.!? He is your fiance, you should be able to talk to him about it and express your concern with why he was doing it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
ummm I don't know!.Was he smiling while he was doing it!?!? Or did he have a menacing look on his face!.Just tell him it's a huge turn off and he'll stop!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Choking for a guy is like a woman saying "I love you so much"!. You should nurture his love by buying him some strangling gloves!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Break it off, now!.
Nobody plays like that!. Yes, you are in danger!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Nobody plays like that!. Yes, you are in danger!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I wouold be very concerned, as one little slip and you're are no moreWww@Answer-Health@Com
that is just freaking wierd!.!. i guess he likes it that way to have sex or he could just be a freakWww@Answer-Health@Com
no its not normal!.!. that's quite strange, could you ask him about it possibly!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
He learnt something new whilst overseas!.!.!.id be questioning him alotWww@Answer-Health@Com