Guys I need some advice on how to handle this?!
Question: Guys I need some advice on how to handle this!?
I've been dating this guy recently and we have great chemistry and everything blah, blah, blah!.!.!.!. but he seems to get angry at me over little, irrational things!. I'm' not a fighter so I don't really engage in any nonsense, but I hate it when things aren't okay!. Last night he got angry and I'm not ever sure over what!.!.!.!.we haven't talked today!.!.!.should I pursue him (as in calling or sending a text)!? I can't tell if he's the type of guy that wants me to go after him and pursue him when things aren't right or is it best to just leave him alone and if he comes around he comes around!? What's the rule of thumb on this one!? I don't want to chase after him if that will cause him not to respect me or think that I'm needy!.!.!.!. Thanks!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Do yourself a great favor and drop him now like a bad habit!. Anger is an extremely negative state, and you need not associate with a guy who obviously suffers in it's grips!. For your information 2 cents the root cause of anger is fear!. You state you have great chemistry, but your question suggests otherwise!. I note he allegedly said: "but he seems to get angry at me over little, irrational things!. I'm' not a fighter so I don't really engage in any nonsense, but I hate it when things aren't okay!. Last night he got angry and I'm not ever sure over what!.!.!.!." This behavior is inexcusable and not worthy of your admiration towards him and indeed as you stated is nonsense!. Do not mistake this behavior as good chemistry between you and him!. View it as a warning signal for you to look within or else where for some real chemistry!.
So chase not, but rather run away in the other direction as fast as you can!. If you do not you will suffer the consequences of this guys fear, pain and suffering!. Do not fool yourself into thinking he will change!. First, if there is to be a change he must admit he has a serious problem!. From there it takes dedicated, sustained effort to manage anger!. If he is not willing to work on his short comings as a human being there is no hope!. I say that you must free yourself from his grips now and you will be O!.K!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
So chase not, but rather run away in the other direction as fast as you can!. If you do not you will suffer the consequences of this guys fear, pain and suffering!. Do not fool yourself into thinking he will change!. First, if there is to be a change he must admit he has a serious problem!. From there it takes dedicated, sustained effort to manage anger!. If he is not willing to work on his short comings as a human being there is no hope!. I say that you must free yourself from his grips now and you will be O!.K!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would talk with him and let him know your feelings!. Sometimes I am tressed out and snap at my wife but don't even realize it until she brings it to my attention!. Unfortunately when guys get stressed out they tend to take it out on those closest to them unknowingly because we are most comfortable with them!. (Which isn't fair but it happens!.) If the problem isn't brought out in the open it can not be addressed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My suggestion is to find someone else!. If he makes you uncomfortable or appears violent, there is no reason for you to be with him!. It will only end in pain!.Www@Answer-Health@Com