I AM SOSO NERVOUS AND SCARED. what do i do?!
Question: I AM SOSO NERVOUS AND SCARED!. what do i do!?
im in 12th grade!. there is this guy i have liked for 2 years now!. we havent really talked during that time and the only time we talked was during a project in a class 2 years ago!.
during the past 2 years i have noticed him gazing at me from afar, glancing at me all the time, and staring and holding eyecontact if i look back!. he has also brushed against my back when im not in his way, leaves class at the same time as me and always walks behind me, etc!. but he has never approached me!.
well now my teacher put me in the same lab group in our science class and i sit near him!. i like him sooooo much and i am pretty positive he likes me back!. im really scared and nervous to talk to him, so much so that i felt like throwing up in class today because i am sooo nervous around him!.
what do i do!?!?!? i like him but im so nervous!!!!!!! help!!? what do i do!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
during the past 2 years i have noticed him gazing at me from afar, glancing at me all the time, and staring and holding eyecontact if i look back!. he has also brushed against my back when im not in his way, leaves class at the same time as me and always walks behind me, etc!. but he has never approached me!.
well now my teacher put me in the same lab group in our science class and i sit near him!. i like him sooooo much and i am pretty positive he likes me back!. im really scared and nervous to talk to him, so much so that i felt like throwing up in class today because i am sooo nervous around him!.
what do i do!?!?!? i like him but im so nervous!!!!!!! help!!? what do i do!?!?!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
just remember that he is just as nervous as you are!. start talking to him and you will get more comfortable with each otherWww@Answer-Health@Com
Wow, I consider him a lucky guy!. I'm guessing he's nervous to approach you too!. I'd sure as hell would be!. Try to say hi to the guy and ask him what he thinks about the assignment!. It'll make the atmosphere better so try to make small talk!. It'll be tough but try to stay positive!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Find out what interests you have in common and talk to him about them!. Or get one of your friends to act as a go-between!.
Friendships are built upon common interests!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Friendships are built upon common interests!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Grow up and talk to him!. You're in 12th grade!.!.!.practically an adult!.!.!.geez!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
what you should do is post this question in "singles and dating"Www@Answer-Health@Com
Take a deep breath & take the plunge - like jumping into an ice cold lake in the summer! Just speak to him - Like, Hello, Nice day isn't it!? He's probably just as shy as you are & has butterflies in his stomach, too!. SOMEBODY's gotta make a move & since he won't, then you should - if you really like him!. Don't let some other girl snatch him away from you!. You will always wonder what could have been or what should have been if you don't screw up enough courage to speak to this guy!. You could be missing out on a lot!. Take a course in self assertiveness or even in Public Speaking - to help bolster your confidence & self esteem!. This could be your last chance - go for it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I feel for you!.!.!.
two years ago, i went through something like that, and it was tragic!. I thought that she liked me, but when i asked her to dance (the scariest moment of my life) she said maybe and walked off!. GIRLS, IF A GUY EVER ASKS YOU TO DANCE, DANCE!!! ugh!.!.!.!. :(
ok, anyway, it's ok!. i know what it's like to extremely like someone!. guys go through the same thing!. You should try to make small talk with him, and if it seems like he's enjoying it, progress through regular talk!. It might be awkward and nervous, but if you really think you're making progress, step up!. Go for it!. Even if you're hecka nervous, it'll feel good that you at least tried!.
Proceed at your own risk:
After that dance, i got horribly depressed, and it lasted for a couple months (worst time of my life)
If he likes you, and you go out with him/dance, work on your relationship!! It might work out well, just give it a try!!!
I know i may have seemed harsh, but that's the facts kiddo; the #1 reason that people dont approach people they like is the fear of rejection!. jump in that metaphorical pool!. GO FOR IT!
I'm sure that you'l do fine, but just remember that no one has the right to make you feel bad, and there is always light in the darkness, no matter how far away it may seem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
two years ago, i went through something like that, and it was tragic!. I thought that she liked me, but when i asked her to dance (the scariest moment of my life) she said maybe and walked off!. GIRLS, IF A GUY EVER ASKS YOU TO DANCE, DANCE!!! ugh!.!.!.!. :(
ok, anyway, it's ok!. i know what it's like to extremely like someone!. guys go through the same thing!. You should try to make small talk with him, and if it seems like he's enjoying it, progress through regular talk!. It might be awkward and nervous, but if you really think you're making progress, step up!. Go for it!. Even if you're hecka nervous, it'll feel good that you at least tried!.
Proceed at your own risk:
After that dance, i got horribly depressed, and it lasted for a couple months (worst time of my life)
If he likes you, and you go out with him/dance, work on your relationship!! It might work out well, just give it a try!!!
I know i may have seemed harsh, but that's the facts kiddo; the #1 reason that people dont approach people they like is the fear of rejection!. jump in that metaphorical pool!. GO FOR IT!
I'm sure that you'l do fine, but just remember that no one has the right to make you feel bad, and there is always light in the darkness, no matter how far away it may seem!.Www@Answer-Health@Com