When me and my husband have sex...?!
Question: When me and my husband have sex!.!.!.!?
Me and my husband been with each other for about 7 years now!. He and I have sex like normal married people do!. But there are times, quit frequently, where he can't finish!. We will be excited and we are doing it for a while, and then he says he's about to finish, but then he says he can't!. He can't finish quicken then maybe an hour or so!. Sometimes, last 2 hours! No lie!. It's been getting so aggravating for the both of us!. We don't know why he can't finish!. I think it may be something psychological!. But I don't know!. He and I are very concerned!. He doesn't know what to think!. We want to have a baby and start a family together, but this is getting to the point where we might get a divorce or separate!. We don't want that!. He feels that he can't please me anymore!. It's been like this since we started dating!. I haven't done anything with any one else!. I mean we had other relationships and stuff But I am the only person who he really had a sexual relationship with!. He has done it with 2 other girls, but never been able to finish with them!. He can do it sometimes, but then if we do it like 2 days in a row, after the 2nd day, he wont be able to!. Why is that!? It's getting frustrating!. I love him and don't want him to be upset anymore!. I can masturbate him, and he can me, just to get our needs!.!.!.but other than that!.!.!.!.nothing!.!.!.
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Answers:
this sounds like a thing called "retarded/delayed ejaculation" Do a google search for it!.
It could be psychological or have its roots in some physical problem!. If it's the first he needs to go to a therapist and if the second to a doctor!.
OR maybe he masturbates too much and too hard (if that's the case then hes used to whacking it with his hand, which feels different than sex, causing him to be unable to finish from the sensation of actual sex) and he needs to lay off it for awhileWww@Answer-Health@Com
It could be psychological or have its roots in some physical problem!. If it's the first he needs to go to a therapist and if the second to a doctor!.
OR maybe he masturbates too much and too hard (if that's the case then hes used to whacking it with his hand, which feels different than sex, causing him to be unable to finish from the sensation of actual sex) and he needs to lay off it for awhileWww@Answer-Health@Com
Here is a possible solution: Stop having sex for at least a week!. Then do it no more than once a week for a month or two!. See if taking some time between times helps!. As a second possibility, he should talk to his doctor and see if getting a sample of "the little blue pill" will help!. It will keep him erect and harder during sex and that probably will allow him to "finish!."Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try adding some spice to your sex life, ask him what some of his fantasies are and help him fulfill them! In turn, he can help you fulfill some of yours! After seven years, some times sex can seem routine, especially if you always do it the same way!.
Try doing it in positions you don't normally use, or maybe going away some where for a romantic weekend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Try doing it in positions you don't normally use, or maybe going away some where for a romantic weekend!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That is bizarre!. It might help to add some foreplay in there!. My bf claims it takes him too long to finish if I don't give him a bj first!. Whether that is true or not, it might help you two out!. If you can get him "prepped" before, he might be able to finish faster!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You're doing it too much! Slow down! Let him go a 2 or 3 days between bouts!. The more a man has sex, the harder (pun not intended) it is to "finish" !.
Just slow down your love making to 2 or 3 times a week!. And try to keep the pressure off!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just slow down your love making to 2 or 3 times a week!. And try to keep the pressure off!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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he needs to go to the doctor, not get advice from strangers on the internet that don't know what they're talking about!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
that does happen sometimes i can on all night sometimes and nothing happensWww@Answer-Health@Com
Maybe its ED!? Take him to a doctor!. Maybe he needs some pills or something!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe u need to arouse him some more!. maybe give him head!. just a suggestion!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe he's a woman!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ask him if he 'daydreams' while having sex but do not have him tell you what he 'daydreams' about; that is his private area not to be approached by anyone but him!. Then, tell him it shud be something erotic between him and another person whether it is you or someone he likes!. Or he could be between two people he would enjoy watching whether it is a story he read, or a video he saw!. Perhaps he shud watch some porn an hour or two before sexual relations--something to stimulate his brain as well as hit 'little head'!. Perhaps, he and I shud have some man-to-man time together for stimulation, only if he is willing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com