Why erection but no orgasm. ?!


Question: Why erection but no orgasm!. !?
I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks and we finally decided to have sex!.

We had both been drinking that night!.

We had been doing it for over half an hour and he still didn't have an orgasm!. We stopped and I started giving him oral!. And he still didnt finish!. He had a strong erection the entire time!.

I am fairly confident in my ummm skills!. So i dont think it was me!. Could it be because he had been drinking!?

I am also not sure if he was a virgin or not!. He seemed kinda nervous!. Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Usually when you drink it will lead to the need to urinate often!. When guys are having sex, it makes it extremely difficult to orgasm while having that problem!. Drinking affects your Cerebellum in your Central Nervous system and that affects your pleasure as well!. He's going to be nervous having sex with someone new for the first time usually!. Try it again without drinks and see what happens!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's the alcohol!.
Most men who drink too much alcohol will be unable to get aroused!.
Whereas, others can maintain an erection without an orgasm!. I've had female friends who told me of former boyfriends who were able to have sex with them for well over an hour without ejaculating, and it was only due to them having loaded up on booze!.
I have also known women with bf's who told that their men had the opposite effect, much to their annoyance!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Its called whiskey dick in lamest terms its when you have to much alcohol in your system to where it thins the blood out and some other scientific crap that I don't truly know and it keeps a man from blowing his uummmm you know!.(and if he is a virgin that won't help, most guys are pretty nervous and don't have a reaction their first time) It has happened to prolly 80% of men that actually drink maybe more most are embarrassed!. But its nothin to worry about!. From the sounds you two are of the younger age and i doubt he has any problems!. Just give it a shot sober and I bet he will be blastin away!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

If he was a virgin, there is no way he could have lasted 30 minutes!. I've read/heard (not sure which!.!.!. haha) somewhere that excessive (and I don't mean piss drunk, just after a certain amount depending on the person) alcohol would make it harder to do anything sexually, so that is a possibility!.

Either that, or he is just an amazing lover who could go all night!!!!.!.!.!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

It was most likely the drinking!. Drinking often delays or makes it extremely difficult for either party to orgasm, but especially the male, to reach climax, though this is not the guaranteed answer, as it could be something else health related!. Good luck, hope all goes well!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ok I think what some of these people wrote about him not being attracted to you is crap!.!.!.He would not have kept it up that long if he wasnt attracted to you!! Most likely it was the drinking!.!.my husband always last a long time when he is drunk!.

lol!.!.if he was a virgin he proballly would have busted as soon as you touched himWww@Answer-Health@Com

How confident are you in your skills!? To truly eliminate that variable from the problem you must have a sufficient set of trials!.

But in all honesty it was probably the nerves and alcohol!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

he probable wasn't attracted to you at all!. even as you brag that your "skills" are good, if he finds you revolting, nothing is going to happen!. mentally, he just couldn't get over that final hurdle!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes, as others have said--probably the drinking, although I am surprised with the erection--usually drinking will also effect that too!. Try sober--relax and enjoy because sometimes being too preoccupied can cause problems also!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Because it wasn't pleasurableWww@Answer-Health@Com

because it won't happen if you aren't into it enough, or he isn't into it!. he needs to relax!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

maybe the drinking!. Maybe had already ejaculated too recently!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

its most likely because u guys were drinking!. try it sober next timeWww@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah, it was the alcohol!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yep, the drinking!. sober be much better in finishing for himWww@Answer-Health@Com





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