Do GUYS have to CLIMAX everytime when Having sex?!
Question: Do GUYS have to CLIMAX everytime when Having sex!?
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I was having sex without a condom with my boyfriend early this morning (he's 26 and I'm 25) and I could hear him moaning as if reaching climax (almost ready to ejaculate) and then he suddenly stops and says he has a "hand cramp" so he lays back on the bed and we never finished!.
So I wondering 1) did he come and just not tell me!? 2) Was his hand cramp "That" bad that he couldn't go on!? 3) Was he just tired of doing it and wanted a cop out!?
Add't details: We had sex the night before so I know he wasn't too tired between sessions!. We were in the "doggy-style" position (sorry tmi) but I can see how has hand would have cramped from supporting his weight, but it just seems odd that he wouldn't want to "finish" if he in fact didn't finish!.
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I was having sex without a condom with my boyfriend early this morning (he's 26 and I'm 25) and I could hear him moaning as if reaching climax (almost ready to ejaculate) and then he suddenly stops and says he has a "hand cramp" so he lays back on the bed and we never finished!.
So I wondering 1) did he come and just not tell me!? 2) Was his hand cramp "That" bad that he couldn't go on!? 3) Was he just tired of doing it and wanted a cop out!?
Add't details: We had sex the night before so I know he wasn't too tired between sessions!. We were in the "doggy-style" position (sorry tmi) but I can see how has hand would have cramped from supporting his weight, but it just seems odd that he wouldn't want to "finish" if he in fact didn't finish!.
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Answers:
1) he might have came and not told you, but that's not likely since you should be in tune with his body and the way he cums by now!.
2) I don't see how your hand would cramp in the doggy style position; unless my doggy is different than some other dog's style!.
3) He may have been tired or preoccupied and was about to lose his erection so he bailed out!.
just chalk it up as an anomaly but next time it happens ask!.!.!. communication is a huge part of a couple's healthy sex life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
2) I don't see how your hand would cramp in the doggy style position; unless my doggy is different than some other dog's style!.
3) He may have been tired or preoccupied and was about to lose his erection so he bailed out!.
just chalk it up as an anomaly but next time it happens ask!.!.!. communication is a huge part of a couple's healthy sex life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Interesting Question!.
There are times when my wife & I are making love & I don't ejaculate!. For me the orgasm happens between the ears!. As long as she's satisfied, it doesn't make a difference if I come or not!.
BTW: There's nothing awkward about talking about it!. That's healthy!Www@Answer-Health@Com
There are times when my wife & I are making love & I don't ejaculate!. For me the orgasm happens between the ears!. As long as she's satisfied, it doesn't make a difference if I come or not!.
BTW: There's nothing awkward about talking about it!. That's healthy!Www@Answer-Health@Com
sounds to me like he busted a nut in ya and then rolled over and fed ya a line of crap to shut you up!. He really respects you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
sounds like hes getting his jollies and leaveing you out cold, thats not cool at all!. make him work on you a while before he gets it,and things will changeWww@Answer-Health@Com
a cramp wouldn't have stopped me, maybe he came without you knowingWww@Answer-Health@Com
1!. he could have come without telling you!.
2!. his hand can be cramp if it doesn't hurt upon touching it on hot water!. you should have checked it!.
3!. he's not tired of doing it!. probably he doesn't want to make you pregnant since both of you are not wearing condom!.
asking him is not a problem just confront him nicely!.
guys don't have to reach climax in having sex!. we can fake it, honestly!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
2!. his hand can be cramp if it doesn't hurt upon touching it on hot water!. you should have checked it!.
3!. he's not tired of doing it!. probably he doesn't want to make you pregnant since both of you are not wearing condom!.
asking him is not a problem just confront him nicely!.
guys don't have to reach climax in having sex!. we can fake it, honestly!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Most males would want to climax when having sex, that's the whole point of it!.
He would have most probably come had he not had the cramp!. May be the cramp was bad enough to put him off and that's why he did feel any interest in sex there after!.
In males, not all ejaculations result in the same amount of pleasure!. Sometimes the orgasm can be great and not so much at others!. As your boyfriend was put off by the cramp, had he climaxed, the orgasm would very likely not to be a good one, so that's the main reason he chose not to come as there's no point coming when the guy knows in advance that the pleasure won't be as good!Www@Answer-Health@Com
He would have most probably come had he not had the cramp!. May be the cramp was bad enough to put him off and that's why he did feel any interest in sex there after!.
In males, not all ejaculations result in the same amount of pleasure!. Sometimes the orgasm can be great and not so much at others!. As your boyfriend was put off by the cramp, had he climaxed, the orgasm would very likely not to be a good one, so that's the main reason he chose not to come as there's no point coming when the guy knows in advance that the pleasure won't be as good!Www@Answer-Health@Com