Guys: your opinion please! I need some help with this!?!
Question: Guys: your opinion please! I need some help with this!!?
Any ideas why my bf might be hiding his p*rn-watching from me!? He knows I don't care, I have told him this!. He always makes up lame excuses saying he doesn't know how it got on the computer, but I'm not stupid!. I know he is watching it, and it doesn't bother me!. I just wish he wouldn't lie about it!. Any ideas why he isn't be honest!?
(BTW: we are both adults, been together 5 years and we have a kid)
I didn't know what category to put this in!.!.!.!.it suggested gay/lesbian lol!Www@Answer-Health@Com
(BTW: we are both adults, been together 5 years and we have a kid)
I didn't know what category to put this in!.!.!.!.it suggested gay/lesbian lol!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
He's totally embarrassed!. Think of it this way!. What he sees on the net is free and men like to survey the landscape!. We are visionary creatures!. What appeals to some of the boys may not to others!.
When you're both in the mood and really "cookin" some time why not ask what it is about the pictures he surfs appeals to him most!. Possibly it's sexy clothes or lack of clothes!. Maybe he's secretly into whipped cream!. If you want to find out he's got to be in a vulnerable position!. You gotta be teasing him to death!. You must know what he likes, make him beg like crazy and do something totally different to him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
When you're both in the mood and really "cookin" some time why not ask what it is about the pictures he surfs appeals to him most!. Possibly it's sexy clothes or lack of clothes!. Maybe he's secretly into whipped cream!. If you want to find out he's got to be in a vulnerable position!. You gotta be teasing him to death!. You must know what he likes, make him beg like crazy and do something totally different to him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Luv, ur attitude!! Like everyone else is saying he is probably embarrassed afraid that you are going to think that you aren't enough to keep him happy!. Or maybe he does not like to portray himself as one of those pervs that have to look or watch porn!. But I will say ur openness to this issue is awesome and I would think that would keep him from having to hide it from you!. The lying sucks!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He's embarrassed!. You don't mind knowing but he feels that he's letting himself down and that, whatever you may say, you will be dissapointed with him!. And he may feel that one day your child may also find his porn!.!.!.!.!.!.!.how would you and he feel then!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
It's probably hard for him to be open about things like this!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Have you told him that you don't care!? and if you did maybe he's not getting enough pleasure so spice up your sex life or somethingWww@Answer-Health@Com
he's probably just embarrassed about itWww@Answer-Health@Com
he's scared that you'll be angry with him
and he's embarassed if the kids were to find outWww@Answer-Health@Com
and he's embarassed if the kids were to find outWww@Answer-Health@Com
leave him alone!.!.!. don't ask him about it anymore!.!.!. i't's a guy thing and he doesn't want to discuss it with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i would not worry at all he is just curious ,let him be it is naturalWww@Answer-Health@Com