Do any of you straight married men have occasional bi fantasies like I do?!
Question: Do any of you straight married men have occasional bi fantasies like I do!?
On the street, I check out women, I love beautiful women!. I do not check out men on the street!. I am very manly!. However, whenever I see a nice big penis, I fantasize sucking it!. I fantasize feeling it in my mouth!. I am very confused about this because at 44 years old, I find the fantasies increasing!.
Can any of you relate!? I am not sure if this is normal for heteros or some kind of bi curiousness!.
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Can any of you relate!? I am not sure if this is normal for heteros or some kind of bi curiousness!.
Thanks for your replies!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Pretty much normal, in my opinion, and does have a lot to do I believe with age--- guys tend to show more bisexual tendencies over age 40, or even turn fully homosexual that age or older after 20 + years of heterosexuality!. I personally think it has to do with hormones, both female and male!. At 40 or so, the females tend to quit being interested much in sex, while the guy has a strong interest of course!. But, the horny male is past the normal fathering age, so I suspect his hormones change somewhat to help satisfy his sexual needs- steering him towards other males for sexual satisfaction and male bonding instead of younger females so he won't produce any more kids!. Look at most bi sites and forums, in many instances the bi-side tends to pop out after age 40 or so based on a lot of blogs I have seen!. Anyway, I think it, and you, are quite normal and it's just a part of nature's way of ensuring sexual health without excessive population or competition with younger guys to reproduce!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
For any of you that can claim you've never checked out another penis -Bull crap! Scott P!. you mean you've never seen another penis!? How do you know your junk is normal if you've never seen another to compare it to!? If you've ever seen a porn then you've seen something enter the chick!.!.!. Get over your "Only homos check out other men" crap!. We all check each other out!. The difference is some look with sexual interest and others check out with a competitive frame of mind!. Bottom line, we all do!. I catch guys checking me and others out in the locker room all the time!. It doesn't mean they are hitting on me!. It means they're comparing themselves to me!. They either think I'm hung, or that I'm small!.!.!.it's that simple!.
So, dude, if you're fantasizing about other men!. It's healthy to fantasize!. Just be honest with yourself, and understand the repercussions of acting on your fantasy!.
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So, dude, if you're fantasizing about other men!. It's healthy to fantasize!. Just be honest with yourself, and understand the repercussions of acting on your fantasy!.
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Sounds like bi-curious thoughts to me, no big deal there!. I mean, it's perfectly natural for anyone to go through something like this - so rest assured you're not a freak!.
If you come to the conclusion you ARE bisexual, that's fine! Just because you fantasize doesn't necessarily mean you're going to spontaneously and without any choice go out and cheat on your wife!. People who fantasize are sexually healthy individuals, man!.
There are websites out there that support people in the exact same position you find yourself right now!. Out of the pure goodness of my heart (hehe!.!.) I tracked down one that might help you figure yourself out and not feel alone in it!.!.!.
http://www!.experienceproject!.com/groups/!.!.!.
Best of luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you come to the conclusion you ARE bisexual, that's fine! Just because you fantasize doesn't necessarily mean you're going to spontaneously and without any choice go out and cheat on your wife!. People who fantasize are sexually healthy individuals, man!.
There are websites out there that support people in the exact same position you find yourself right now!. Out of the pure goodness of my heart (hehe!.!.) I tracked down one that might help you figure yourself out and not feel alone in it!.!.!.
http://www!.experienceproject!.com/groups/!.!.!.
Best of luck :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe u are at the point when subconsciously u are experimenting with males!. maybe u just need to try a Sexual experience with a man or even try anal activities!. if the fantasies continue to increase then i would say that u should just go and have an experience! but talk to ur wife about experimenting in the bedroom buy things that can be used on both of u!. try new things that can be used for straight and homosexual use!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hey Kev, if you are married and not a homo, how is it that you often see "nice big penises"!? Maybe in the beef section at Stop and Shop!? Do they sell "buy one, suck one free"!?!. Come on, tell the truth!. Been doing a little pecker-peeping in the men's bathroom!. We all know that you are familiar with the taste of ****, so stop lying to yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like you might be a little Bi- curious to me!. Well just ask yourself if u would ever do this in reality!. If u think u would then your gay!. if not then ur notWww@Answer-Health@Com
Just don't act on them, or at least not while you're still married!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
relax, this is perfectly normal for a gay man such as yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
No!.
Not all that manly after all!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Not all that manly after all!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
sounds a little gay to me!.!. maybe you should see a doctor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com