Is it wrong of me if i don't tell my guy that i'm late?!


Question: Is it wrong of me if i don't tell my guy that i'm late!?
I skipped my period in september but I didn't think much of it because I have always been irregular so I wasn't sure when it would come!. I thought it would come around the end of the month, but it never did!. I'm going to get a home pregnancy test tomorrow just to rule that out, I've heard that stress and stuff can cause you to skip a period, I'm guessing, hoping that's it, I've also had a bad cold that I just got over!. I have no signs of pregnancy and we've always been safe and never had any accidents!. We always use condoms!. Well I haven't said anything to him about this, I thought I should wait and be sure rather than get him AND me all worried over possibly nothing!. Is that wrong of me or should I have told him!? Would you guys want a girl to tell you if she wasn't sure!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


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First thing in the morning keep a sample of urine just to do the test as soon as you buy it!. There is no point in waiting to take the test, and it is best to do the test with first morning urine!.

Then if you are not pregnant - breathe a sigh of relief!.

If you are pregnant, then you should speak to him because he would be the father of your child!.

For future, no contraceptive is 100% accurate!. You may want to go on the pill or get an implant!.

And just to put your mind at rest, with the fact that you have irregular periods, you did not do wrong in not telling him!. Otherwise you would have to tell him with every delay, which is unnecessary worrying for nothing!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think you are right in not telling him that your late!. until your sure i think you shouldnt worry him!. you dont need the extra stress!. but to take a bit of stress off you, you should talk to a friend just so you can have someone there so you dont stress too much!. and like you said you have always been irregular!. gud luk!. i hope i helped :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, I would let him know that there is a small possibility!. However, make sure that you tell him that you are going to use a pregnancy test and that he shouldn't worry!. If you always practice safe sex, then you both should have nothing to worry about!. Don't stress though, everything will turn out fine!. =)Www@Answer-Health@Com

I wouldn't tell him until I did a pregnancy test!.
There's no use to tell him and have him worry, if it's just a false alarm!.
Also, just to let you know, condoms can break, so it doesn't matter to much if you used those!.

So anyway, don't tell him until your sure!.
Hope it helped!.
TaraWww@Answer-Health@Com

Don't tell him until after you take the test!. If it's negative, it would still be good to share, just so he stays just a little nervous that having sex can mean getting pregnant and doesn't get too relaxed about protection!. Test as soon as possible! Why wait and worry!?

Good job though on using protection every time!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well, I'm a girl but I say, dont tell him yet!.
No reason to get him all worried for nothing!.
And if you've always been safe then just take the test
and then tell him!.
Whatever the outcome though, he should know you did it!.

Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wait for the test results!. If it hasn't been a whole 2 months that you've missed I'd say no big deal!. I'm a guy and it wouldn't bother me waiting that long!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Nope, wait till you know either way, then be honest!. Having said that, if he is a serious partner then maybe secrets arent a good idea!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

The most important facet of any relationship is trust!. Which means that you must tell your partner about anything that may affect it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sex can screw with periods so much!. Take the test then let him know!. Don't get him worked up if there is no reason to!. PLEASE!Www@Answer-Health@Com

I would wait to see if you were pregnant first!. I agree there is no reason to get him worried for nothing!. But if you are you should tell him ASAP!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just be honest, communication is important in all relationships, good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yeah don't tell him until you take a test like three times!.
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Be honest with him :) The more he knows, the better the relationship!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

not just tell him that u always thought youve been irregular and you skipped it last month!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think you should go down to walgreens & get a pregnancy test!.
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don't say anything until you pee on that stick, like you said - why get him upset if it's nothingWww@Answer-Health@Com

Tell him when you KNOW for sure!.!.!.no need to worry him for no reason!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it's not just about you, he should have to worry about it to, tell himWww@Answer-Health@Com

i would want her to ask this question in family and relationships!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

wait till your sure your pregnant and if you are then tell him Www@Answer-Health@Com





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