Am I Mad!
Question: Am I Mad
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Performance anxiety such as you have is a terrible burden to carry!. Regardless of what other men say research has shown that just about all men suffer from it at some stage in their lives - most are too 'manly' to admit it!. You've admitted it and congratulations on your courage!.
I know it's hard to do but among the answers to this problem is to try to put the whole issue out of your head when you're with a girl and getting ready to do it!.
As another respondent said it certainly helps big time if the girl is understanding and cooperative in helping you!. Self-doubt goes very deep at times and is hard to remove in the short term!. If you are with a girl who you can satisfy using other techniques and is willing to assist you then your embarrassment levels start to drop as she is happy with what you give her and she is not pressing you for actual penetration sex!. This will give the girl a good insight into how fragile male sexuality really is but we hide it behind our macho posturing !.!.!.!.!.!. often to our own detriment!.
If this girl is willing to work on you for short periods and stop when you start to lose your erection your erection times will become longer!. If, on the other hand you can't get the erection with her in the first place she may have to take her time and continue stimulating you!. Lots of cuddling and kissing and talking about what's happening/not happening at the time really helps to difuse anxiety build-up!. Believe me their is no better cure for your situation than an actively participating female assistant!. Once you start to feel aroused you can sometimes be helped along by the woman stopping what she's doing and this can be frustratingly teasing leading to more success later!. It will take time and it may reoccur on occasions but you'll be able to get through it with the right girl at your side!. Don't think about your problem too much as stress is one of the four big killers of erections and self-esteem!. Right now have the girl work on you with hands, mouth, whatever you like done but the both of you have a firm understanding that it's not being done with penetration in mind!. The object is to just get you erections with her!. Masturbation should be the next level of arousal with penetration sex the last target!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I know it's hard to do but among the answers to this problem is to try to put the whole issue out of your head when you're with a girl and getting ready to do it!.
As another respondent said it certainly helps big time if the girl is understanding and cooperative in helping you!. Self-doubt goes very deep at times and is hard to remove in the short term!. If you are with a girl who you can satisfy using other techniques and is willing to assist you then your embarrassment levels start to drop as she is happy with what you give her and she is not pressing you for actual penetration sex!. This will give the girl a good insight into how fragile male sexuality really is but we hide it behind our macho posturing !.!.!.!.!.!. often to our own detriment!.
If this girl is willing to work on you for short periods and stop when you start to lose your erection your erection times will become longer!. If, on the other hand you can't get the erection with her in the first place she may have to take her time and continue stimulating you!. Lots of cuddling and kissing and talking about what's happening/not happening at the time really helps to difuse anxiety build-up!. Believe me their is no better cure for your situation than an actively participating female assistant!. Once you start to feel aroused you can sometimes be helped along by the woman stopping what she's doing and this can be frustratingly teasing leading to more success later!. It will take time and it may reoccur on occasions but you'll be able to get through it with the right girl at your side!. Don't think about your problem too much as stress is one of the four big killers of erections and self-esteem!. Right now have the girl work on you with hands, mouth, whatever you like done but the both of you have a firm understanding that it's not being done with penetration in mind!. The object is to just get you erections with her!. Masturbation should be the next level of arousal with penetration sex the last target!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Premature ejaculation is a serious issue that concerns a lot of young men!. I feel lucky because I don't have it, but that doesn't mean I can't give you advice!. The best way to cure it is to 1!. be with someone who generally appreciates you for who you are and 2!. practice, practice, practice!
Practice self control, and especially clenching your kegels (muscles that you can feel if you try to stop the flow of urine while peeing), and keeping focused while doing the deed!.
I hope you can improve!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Practice self control, and especially clenching your kegels (muscles that you can feel if you try to stop the flow of urine while peeing), and keeping focused while doing the deed!.
I hope you can improve!.Www@Answer-Health@Com