I need help! I feel inadequate...in the bedroom :(?!
Question: I need help! I feel inadequate!.!.!.in the bedroom :(!?
I am embarrassed to say this but I can't make my boyfriend come!.!.!.only once since we started having sex recently has he come!. And even that he had to use a fair amount of his own hand before it happened!. I honestly don't know what to do!. I have never had this problem before!. I have no problem getting him turned on and vice versa, I give him oral, we do it all sorts of ways(anal, girl on top, on tables, against the wall, in the shower!.!.!.you name it) I'm not ready to bring up back door play for him so does anyone have any ideas for me!? I feel terrible about it because I know that while he enjoys watching me get off he must be miserable!. Do you think it'd make a difference if we didn't use a condom!?
I don't think its my fault but I still can't help but feel inadequate!. I'm worried he will break up with me because of it :(
The one time he did come there was only a very little bit of ejaculate!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't think its my fault but I still can't help but feel inadequate!. I'm worried he will break up with me because of it :(
The one time he did come there was only a very little bit of ejaculate!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
I have 2 different ideas: 1!. If he has been sexually active in relationships with other women before and didn't use a condom but now does - that is VERY different and the sensitivity is much less and could be the reason!. 2 !. If it's not the aforementioned and he has the same problem with manual/oral stimulation - then it's his problem - not yours!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My dear friend and fellow neighbor, Red Leader, says that it maybe helpful not to masturbate any longer!. Also my good friend the Papmeister, says that, he may need to check about a possible problem with his penis!. Or possibly test with another girl and see if he cums then, if not then it is not your fault, also try teasing the guy or try watching porn as you have intercourse!. If all else fails refer to SEX BIBLE aka COSMO! Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well i would'nt ever suggest not using a condom, but I really have a hard time cumming with a condom on!. But I just realized that this can happen when a condom is to tight and slightly cuts of some of the blood circulation, and sensitivity!.!.!.!.so you should look into seeing if he needs a bigger one, but it might or might not be the case!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
the problem isn't with you, it seems that for whatever reason he's the one with the issue!. don't worry about it, i'm sure you're more than fine at what you do!. the problem will resolve itself over time!. just be patient!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
this is not your problem!.
this sounds like he has an ejaculation problem!. can he ejaculate properly when he masturbates!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
this sounds like he has an ejaculation problem!. can he ejaculate properly when he masturbates!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
what the hell do you look like!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Are you sure you are really pleasuring him!?
Imagine what a guy has to do to pleasure a woman!. Most of the time, the woman lays down on the bed while the man is above her pleasuring her!. He has to hold himself up with his arms, supporting his whole body, while kissing and caressing you!. After a few minutes, the mans arms will become very tired!. However, he will keep trying to pleasure you because he thinks you will leave him if he doesn't pleasure you!. When it comes time to do it, especially missionary style, the man's arms are so tired it's hard to keep himself upright!. Its like doing push-ups for an hour straight!. It's freakin exhausting!.
I'm currently in a relationship with a girl who just lays there!. I know what it's like!. The woman wonders why the man can't get an erection, and after a while, doesn't even want to have sex with her any more!. To be blunt, having sex with a girl who just lays there and gets all the pleasure, while not even pleasuring her man except spreading her legs, will get very VERY boring!. It will get SOOOO tiring and boring that the man won't even want to have sex with you anymore, no matter how cute and banging your body is!.
Next time, let HIM lay down while you pleasure him!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Imagine what a guy has to do to pleasure a woman!. Most of the time, the woman lays down on the bed while the man is above her pleasuring her!. He has to hold himself up with his arms, supporting his whole body, while kissing and caressing you!. After a few minutes, the mans arms will become very tired!. However, he will keep trying to pleasure you because he thinks you will leave him if he doesn't pleasure you!. When it comes time to do it, especially missionary style, the man's arms are so tired it's hard to keep himself upright!. Its like doing push-ups for an hour straight!. It's freakin exhausting!.
I'm currently in a relationship with a girl who just lays there!. I know what it's like!. The woman wonders why the man can't get an erection, and after a while, doesn't even want to have sex with her any more!. To be blunt, having sex with a girl who just lays there and gets all the pleasure, while not even pleasuring her man except spreading her legs, will get very VERY boring!. It will get SOOOO tiring and boring that the man won't even want to have sex with you anymore, no matter how cute and banging your body is!.
Next time, let HIM lay down while you pleasure him!. Www@Answer-Health@Com