Sex problem with my bf?!


Question: Sex problem with my bf!?
My boyfreind and I have been dating for about 5 months and everything in the relationshiip is great expect the sex life!. For what ever reason he can't c*m when we are having sex!. When we are having sex I've notice that he starts to think and it really turns me off so we stop havings sex!. He told me in the past he hasent had this problem but with me not only does he have this problem but he sometimes gets soft on me!. I dont even want to have sex with him beacause it breaks my heart because I start to feel that I'm not turning him on!. The reason he gives me is that he has never been with a girl like me!.!.!.and that he feels he is not enough for me!. He starts to worry about how he is doing it, do i like it or that he can't beleive he is having sex with me!. In other words he can't concetrate or focus!. He also mentions to me that his feelings are growing massively and he is afraid of getting hurt what, if i dont like the way he does me or he looks!. He is a very attractive guy so I don't know why he acts that way!. Is there something wrong with him!?!? or is he lying to me about the truth! were both 19Www@Answer-Health@Com


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When you're having sex do whatever you can to keep his attention on what you're doing!. Let him know he's all you need and tell 'him' how you feel!. =) Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well when yall are having sex tell him that it feels good or something to let him know you are enjoying the sex!. It should keep him hard and boost his confidence!. Hope it helps Www@Answer-Health@Com

ughh lose the nerd and get someone (like me) that has the balls to ram you hard over and over and over without getting soft!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

just dump him your too young to be wasting your time on a guy with problems at his age!. at your age sex should be fun not problemsWww@Answer-Health@Com

Make sure he knows that he turns you on!. It sound like a confidence issue for him!. He should maybe get some counseling!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Um!.!. dont know how i wandered into this one!. but i can tell you that it ain't goin work out with you dudes that's all so cut loose now!. Them signs are telling you that you are incompatible as a couple for deeper reasons that you ain't aware of and won't want to believe, and due to his underlying insecurities etc!. I can't be bothered to go on about all that but can assure you that the chemistry is no good, will never be and you are going to end up being emotionally suffocated by him!. So, prevent any really mad scenes ahead and drop the deal now!. Just one of them things!. Otherwise you'll tear each other apart inevitably!. Sorry but true so face it up and take some advice from someone older and wiser!. You young people shouldn't be messin' around with that stuff until you know each other well and understand the implications of intimacy!. Not a joke!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well seeing his age, I don't think it would be anything medical!. No there is nothing wrong with him!. Some guys out there actually are quite worried about themselves just like girls are!. The more you get worried, the more he is going to get worried and its more likely not to work!. You have to make him feel better, just like you would expect him to do if you felt that way!. This one isn't about you, so don't get freaked out about it!. Try to seem like it doesn't bother you and boost up his confidence and he'll be fine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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