My "boyfriend" only hooked up to have sex with me!!!?!
Question: My "boyfriend" only hooked up to have sex with me!!!!?
so i met this guy, and we were kind of dating for like a week!. He calls me on my cellphone, and says "are you a virgin!?" and i am freakin dumbfounded, like h_e_l_l yes I'm a virgin, I'm 14! and then he's all going on about oh want sex with me, and i'm sooo shocked about it i can't even respond!. I got sooooooooo pissed off, thinking that was all he wanted from me, and so i respond with "have you even had a relationship before!!?
"no!.!.!."
"what do you think i'm a s_l_u_t!? you ONLY wanted sex from me!.!.!.!.!.!?!?!?!?!?!!!.!.!.!.!."
Anyways yada yada, he babbles more on "well your almost 15, i'm 15!.!.!.!.
And let me tell you i never even had a boyfriend before, never kissed, never went on a "date", i'm not a s_l_u_t, i dont look like one, i dont dress like one, i am not"easy" and i dont act like it!. I actually thought he wanted to be my boyfriend, but he just wanted to f*** me, i cant even believe it!.
And you guys out there, is this even normal for a regular shy, hot, smart-ish guy!-he's kinda gansta, but not really, he's not a player either, but he freakin is now!.
i would post a pic of myself to prove that i'm not a s_l_u_t, but i dont have a camera, so too bad, just trust me on this one, I AM Far From Being a s_l_u_t!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
"no!.!.!."
"what do you think i'm a s_l_u_t!? you ONLY wanted sex from me!.!.!.!.!.!?!?!?!?!?!!!.!.!.!.!."
Anyways yada yada, he babbles more on "well your almost 15, i'm 15!.!.!.!.
And let me tell you i never even had a boyfriend before, never kissed, never went on a "date", i'm not a s_l_u_t, i dont look like one, i dont dress like one, i am not"easy" and i dont act like it!. I actually thought he wanted to be my boyfriend, but he just wanted to f*** me, i cant even believe it!.
And you guys out there, is this even normal for a regular shy, hot, smart-ish guy!-he's kinda gansta, but not really, he's not a player either, but he freakin is now!.
i would post a pic of myself to prove that i'm not a s_l_u_t, but i dont have a camera, so too bad, just trust me on this one, I AM Far From Being a s_l_u_t!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Your sensible response is enough, you don't need to show a picture!. Some guys at that age only think about sex!. Dump the guy, he probably only wants to seduce you to get you in bed!. Good for you for standing your ground!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
dont post a picture of yourself i am sure you are a perfectly normal nice girl!.you dont want kids you know seeing what you sat etc kids can be real bullies at your age!.dont have sex with him you may be a virgin but you are a smart virgin nd you have figured what he wants!.keep your virginity till you are with someone who loves and respects youWww@Answer-Health@Com
guys are dogs always have been always will be!. keep your virginity,no matter how cool the guy is after he talks you into having sex he'll drop you like a hot rock!.If you deciede to have sex use a condom theres to many std's out there!. a mother of 3 grown daughtersWww@Answer-Health@Com
If he is even SLIGHTLY "gangsta" he's automatically a douchebag!. Anyone who dresses in a way that represents gang activity when they actually have no connection to one is a complete tool unworthy of life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
That is downright rude of him!. At 15 that's all guys are after!. I'm a guy!.!. and I'm 15!.!. but I'm not like that at all!.!. I'm like a Harry Potter geek person!. I don't date yet, it's useless!. Trust me, don't date!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hmm, it's almost as if he's male!.
No, that's judgmental!. Not all guys are like that!. But, some are and you found one!. Good girl for standing your ground!
Don't give up on them, they aren't all bad!. I promise =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
No, that's judgmental!. Not all guys are like that!. But, some are and you found one!. Good girl for standing your ground!
Don't give up on them, they aren't all bad!. I promise =)Www@Answer-Health@Com
stay away from "gansta" guys
they are almost allll like that (at least the ones i know)
just think that all guys are like that!.!. and if they PROVE they arent then thats okay!.!.!. if they cant show u they are different they arent worth your timeWww@Answer-Health@Com
they are almost allll like that (at least the ones i know)
just think that all guys are like that!.!. and if they PROVE they arent then thats okay!.!.!. if they cant show u they are different they arent worth your timeWww@Answer-Health@Com
he's not normal he's a punk there's no "kinda Gansta" you just met what is known as the dreg of society!. don't give him a second thoughtWww@Answer-Health@Com
Dump him!. It's not your fault!. Try to find a guy who can respect your morals and like/love you for 'who' you are, not 'what' you are!. =) Www@Answer-Health@Com
Buy him a bottle of VASELINE HAND CREAM, a box of tissues and kick him to the curb!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
its okay calm down he probulary did i would break up with him and find a new boyfriend one who is gross
don't worry ur not a slutWww@Answer-Health@Com
don't worry ur not a slutWww@Answer-Health@Com
Your dumb!. Its that simple!.
Your 14!.
You dont have to be a slut!.
You sound really immature!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your 14!.
You dont have to be a slut!.
You sound really immature!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
WHY ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM!? LEAVE HIM!!! there are better and not all of us want sex!. hes no good!. so just leave before something comes out of this that you both regret!. (a baby)Www@Answer-Health@Com
consider this your first relationship lesson!.!.!.!.males want sexWww@Answer-Health@Com
Good for you! You did the right thing!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
You don't need this guy!. Dump him and find someone better than him!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
ur my hero :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Virginity Rocks!
Why do you keep saying your not a sl*t!? You don't need to prove yourself to me!. My opinion of you doesn't matter!. If you know you're not one then you're not!.
It seems that the only reason you don't want to have sex is because you're afraid to be labeled!. If you want to have sex, have sex!. If you don't, don't!.
Lets look at this more deeply!. Why do you choose to have a relationship!? Do you believe true happiness cannot be attained except through love in a relationship between a man and a women!? I mean, it is what makes us whole again!. How can one's life be fulfilled until that happens!?
You may agree with this, even though it hasn't happened to you yet!.
Ok!. If you agree with that, then you are essentially waiting for an event _In _Time to save you!. This is a core error in your thinking!. Salvation is not elsewhere in place or time!. It is here and now!.
Let me explain myself!. Most people pursue physical pleasures or various forms of psychological gratification becasue they believe that those things will make them happy or free them from a feeling of fear or lack!. Happiness may be perceived as a heightened sense of aliveness attained through physical pleasure, or a more secure and more complete sense of self attained through some form of psychological gratification!.
This is the search for salvation from a state of unsatisfactoriness or insufficiency!. Invariably, any satisfaction then obtained is short-lived so the condition of satisfaction or fulfillment is usually projected once again onto an imaginary point away from the here and now!. "When I obtain _This or am free of _That - then I will be okay!."
This is the unconscious mind-set that creates the illusion of salvation in the future!.
I know this is a lot to take in, and is an aggressive expansion on your base question but understanding this is very useful knowledge!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Why do you keep saying your not a sl*t!? You don't need to prove yourself to me!. My opinion of you doesn't matter!. If you know you're not one then you're not!.
It seems that the only reason you don't want to have sex is because you're afraid to be labeled!. If you want to have sex, have sex!. If you don't, don't!.
Lets look at this more deeply!. Why do you choose to have a relationship!? Do you believe true happiness cannot be attained except through love in a relationship between a man and a women!? I mean, it is what makes us whole again!. How can one's life be fulfilled until that happens!?
You may agree with this, even though it hasn't happened to you yet!.
Ok!. If you agree with that, then you are essentially waiting for an event _In _Time to save you!. This is a core error in your thinking!. Salvation is not elsewhere in place or time!. It is here and now!.
Let me explain myself!. Most people pursue physical pleasures or various forms of psychological gratification becasue they believe that those things will make them happy or free them from a feeling of fear or lack!. Happiness may be perceived as a heightened sense of aliveness attained through physical pleasure, or a more secure and more complete sense of self attained through some form of psychological gratification!.
This is the search for salvation from a state of unsatisfactoriness or insufficiency!. Invariably, any satisfaction then obtained is short-lived so the condition of satisfaction or fulfillment is usually projected once again onto an imaginary point away from the here and now!. "When I obtain _This or am free of _That - then I will be okay!."
This is the unconscious mind-set that creates the illusion of salvation in the future!.
I know this is a lot to take in, and is an aggressive expansion on your base question but understanding this is very useful knowledge!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just be happy he let you know what he was all about before you had sex with him!. The other way this could have ended:
You do sometihing sexual!. He never calls you again!. He tells all his "gansta" friends!. They tell everyone and they laugh at you everytime they see you!. You got off easy!.
The problem is that women want to have sex with people they admire!. Guys just want to have sex, period!. It doesn't mean that they like you!. It doesn't even mean that they think you're attractive!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You do sometihing sexual!. He never calls you again!. He tells all his "gansta" friends!. They tell everyone and they laugh at you everytime they see you!. You got off easy!.
The problem is that women want to have sex with people they admire!. Guys just want to have sex, period!. It doesn't mean that they like you!. It doesn't even mean that they think you're attractive!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you don't sound like one either most boys aorund that age
just go out with girls just so they can get laid and they will dump you about 2 weeks later but you only get these off chavs just so they can inpress there mates what you are looking for is a guy who is laid back and dosn't think about hoping in your pants when you first meet you want someone who waits untill you are ready eithn if he's ready he will wiat for youWww@Answer-Health@Com
just go out with girls just so they can get laid and they will dump you about 2 weeks later but you only get these off chavs just so they can inpress there mates what you are looking for is a guy who is laid back and dosn't think about hoping in your pants when you first meet you want someone who waits untill you are ready eithn if he's ready he will wiat for youWww@Answer-Health@Com
Don't blame yourself for this boy's behavior!. The only thing it says about your appearance is that you're attractive!. This boy isn't complex enough to be propositioning you because of the way you dress!. He's just an immature kid who doesn't know how to behave yet!.
You'll meet other boys like this from time to time!. Just brush them off for being jerks, don't let them bother you and definitely don't blame yourself for their behavior!. Spend your time on the boys who have some class and know how to act!. Be glad you found out this boy was just a horn dog before you developed some feelings for him!. As you get older you'll come across some guys who are still only interested in sex, but they hide it better; they make themselves seem all romantic just as a lure to get you into bed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You'll meet other boys like this from time to time!. Just brush them off for being jerks, don't let them bother you and definitely don't blame yourself for their behavior!. Spend your time on the boys who have some class and know how to act!. Be glad you found out this boy was just a horn dog before you developed some feelings for him!. As you get older you'll come across some guys who are still only interested in sex, but they hide it better; they make themselves seem all romantic just as a lure to get you into bed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com