What would cause a mans sex drive to diminish?!


Question: What would cause a mans sex drive to diminish!?
We have been married for 20 yrs, sex has been 3-4 times a week through out our married life!. Now, he says he is tired, often going to bed before me, or is asleep before I get there, we are down to once a week!. Our business has been hit hard the past two years, he is under stress!. For the past year and a half he has been on anti-depressants, but this has just come up the last two months!. I really feel rejected!. I am not nagging at him, but wow do I feel low!. Is this just stress, or do you think he is bored!? Www@Answer-Health@Com


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The stress and needing to be on an antidepressant in the first place is an indicator of the level of stress and the effect on the body!. Most antidepressants have a diminishing influence on a Dude's sex life, and the ongoing stress can bring on a condition of burnout!.

It would be a good thing to sit down together and and talk about what matters as well as not taking life too seriously because you will never get out of it alive anyway, or at least alive as we know it to be!.

The troubles will be there weather you stress them or not, so what's the point in stressing them because it doesn't change anything except take the joy out of living!. Better to have joy during the troubles instead of stress with the troubles because the troubles don't get better with the stress!.

Sometimes you just need to do the best that you can and then let it go until you work at it again!.

Life can start to feel like everything and everybody just wants a piece of you, and there isn't enough to go around!. Makes a person feel really tired!.

Wishing you the best, and hope that helps some!.

Me! :- ) Www@Answer-Health@Com

Anxiety, stress, depression, high blood pressure, diabetes, low self esteem!. Not eating properly, not getting any or enough exercise, not getting enough recreation & relaxation!. Try eating more boiled or steamed vegetables!. Dump the junk food!. Go easy on the starchy stuff like potatoes, pasta & bread!. No booze, no cigarettes, no drugs!. Drink plenty of water & fat free milk to help keep the traffic flowing!. Meat needs to be baked, boiled or broiled - never fried!. Snack on raw celery sticks, carrot sticks, grapes, plums, pears, apples, banana's, oranges, grapefruit, cantaloupe, honeydew melon!. Both of you get up one hour early every morning & take a BRISK 30 minute walk - then - do the same thing again in the evening after dinner!. Within 90 days you both will look & feel so much better & I'll bet other aspects of your life will be looking up, too!. Why not go out more for relaxation!? You can attend all kinds of free seminars & many of them furnish a buffet lunch free!. Just do something different & get out of that rut now & then works wonders!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

if your sure its not stress, then perhaps hes getting his 'fill' elsewhere and isnt hungry at home!. if this doesnt seem like the answer you want and brush off everyones advice, then go to the effing doctor!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's the anti-depressants or he isn't getting restful sleep!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Stress will damage a guy's libido !.!. and anti depressants will do it twice as fast!.

Us old guys dont need to be in business!. Fux it!.!.!. let's get out of this merry-go-round and have some fun!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Stress is a major factor and so are anti depressants and not getting enough healthy sleep!.
Cubes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it must be the stress and as soon as it blows over then you might go back to your old scheduleWww@Answer-Health@Com

should be the anit depressants faults!.!.!.or sudden drop in his confidence level!.!.!.that sucksWww@Answer-Health@Com

stress or a bad experience with sex or something elseWww@Answer-Health@Com

How to Increase Libido - A Guide For The Over 40s Man
Libido (male) is defined as a man's sex drive with a clear desire for intercourse!. In classical Asian thinking, its part of our life force, and as it diminishes, so does your life's expectancy!. Why does it decrease!?

- A poor diet combined with lack of exercise which accelerates the lack of testosterone production which can be corrected by simple diet changes and exercise even more critical can be the decline in nitric oxide levels but again this increases with a better lifestyle and there are some natural herbs and supplements to help you increase it!. Lets look at the general problems that cause low or complete lack of libido!.

- Lack of self-esteem

- Being with no or an inappropriate partner

- Unmanaged stress

- Lack of intellectual growth

- Health problems

Considering each one of the above reasons for a diminished or diminishing libido, we can find their solutions and expect the libido to return!.

1!. Diet and Exercise!.

If you are drinking and smoking you can expect a diminished libido!.

The solution is clear, eat well, don't over drink, stop smoking and join a gym (or equivalent)!. Your body will automatically boost its production of testosterone, and your libido will return!.

Certain new natural medications are available on the market that can amplify such efforts as you will make, returning you to a strong libido and healthy sexual capacity by increasing your levels of nitric oxide ( which decline with age) in most cases, men don't need a testosterone increase they need a nitric oxide boost and this can be achieved naturally!.

How critical is nitric oxide!? The answer is you can't get an erection without it - its vital and there are plenty of time tested herbs to give it to you!.

2!. Lack of self-esteem!.

You must have a good opinion about yourself!.

Try to dress well, take care of your person (cleanliness, grooming, and appearance)!. Feel good about yourself, and the body reacts with by giving back the libido that had "slept" or was going to sleep!. Wake it up!

3!. Your Partner!.

If your partner also does not excite you, you need to speak to that partner and find a way back to the magic that put you too together in the first place!.

If you have no partner, try finding one, and its good to remember that generally the partner must posses those qualities you find sexually attractive!. It may be she is younger that you, or she is very sexually liberal, or both, but whatever excites you, try to find it in your partner!.

4!. Stress!.

Nothing reduces libido more than unmanaged stress!.

There are many books, counselors and natural herbs that can alleviate stress!.

If you are stressed, and then address that issue, because it could be killing your libido!.

Stress is one of the major factors in the case of low libido, as the body diverts energy to other areas!. Paying attention to stress is not just going to help your libido it could save your life!.

5!. Intellectual Stimulation!.

You need, we all need, to keep our minds keen!.

An active mind means an active endocrine system, and another avenue for keeping the libido alive or bringing it back should it have disappeared!. Good books, stimulating conversations with intelligent people, learning something new, and having an inquisitive mind are all ways of stimulation of the intellect!.

6!. Health Problems!.
Many times its your general state of health which causes not only a reduction of libido, but ED (erectile dysfunction)!. See your doctor, and whatever is ailing you, treat it!. Do not let neglect treating any ailment!. Do this now!.
Monica Hendrix
For more information, visit http://health-sex-money!.com/SexualInform!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Stress and business problems sound like pretty good explanations to me!. Also, depression can change over time, and he might need changes in his medication!.

Try different kinds of physical attention - massage, for example ("The Massage Book" is a good one)!. If making love means giving each other good body feelings, maybe this is a good time to try new things!.

Also, when one partner has a higher energy level than the other, it's OK to ask, "do you mind if I masturbate!?" He can even help, as much or as little as his energy level allows!. Who knows, it might even get him turned on, too!.

I've been with mine over 20 years, and am not bored yet!. Our love life isn't the same as when we were in our 30s, but still good - maybe better than ever!. Expect changes as you mature - maybe he's just not used to the fact that he's not twenty any more!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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