I don't *** from sex or blowjobs. How do I fix this?!


Question: I don't *** from sex or blowjobs!. How do I fix this!?
I'm a male in his early twenties with a steady girlfriend!. We have been dating for almost 14 months now and so far I was only able to finish once!. I've tried laying off the masterbation and that seems to help a bit!. Our relationship is a bit long-distance at the moment so laying off of it is hard!. Recently she was able to get me off from handjobs but thats it, and that can still be "touch-and-go!." The main issue is that I have to stop during sex because, no matter how soft or slow I try to go after 30 minutes she gets a bit sore and I have to stop to be finished off by hand!. The one time I did finish from intercourse it was amazing and would love to feel that again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Your probably inhibited by being observed while your getting aroused!. Your self-consciousness is blocking your orgasm!. The first time, the novelty of the situation overwhelmed that, but now the self-awareness is more apparent!.

I was going to suggest gradual desensitization, but it seems like you've already gone as far as that could take you, since you can get off in your girl's hand!. So I suggest that you see a sex therapist or ask your health professional for a referral!. Therapists have a number of exercises to deal with these problems, and they're also skilled at figuring out the root causes!. Go soon; sexual problems are one of the big relationship killers, but there's no reason it should be!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Damage from circumcision, which destroys sexual sensitivity did the same thing to me!.

I am restoring my foreskin, and with it my sexual sensitivity and the intensity of my orgasms have also increased!.

The new foreskin adds a dimension of sensitivity that I never knew--the inner foreskin becomes part of the shaft when retracted, and it highly sensitive!.

Foreskin restoration isn't easy nor quick, it takes a couple of years to complete, but the results are well worth it--a new penis and a new sex life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You really need to stop cumming with your hand, then your penis will re-sensitize itslef to the va-ga-ga!.

If you can't stop jerking, you should try just to stroke as lightly as you can!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Use a good lube like K-Y!. There are also some good condoms out there!. If you are having trouble keeping erect, you may try some Cialis or Viagra!. And of course, relax and enjoy yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

your nervous, you need to calm down and relax and everything will be fineWww@Answer-Health@Com

You jack off too much!. Causing lack of "***"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You sound tense!. Relax!. Is birth/disease prevention in place!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Sounds like it could be MS!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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