She doesn't want sex...?!
Question: She doesn't want sex!.!.!.!?
I have been seeing this girl for about 5 months, I really love her!. I have tried to arouse her towards sex but she is very certain to not let me there till marriage!. I do respect this but she has to understand I am a guy!. I have resorted to excessive amounts of masturbation, sometimes over 14 times a day!. So much it hurts sometimes, but every time we are alone I just start kissing her and trying to go places!. She won't even let me near her chest or anything, I am wondering if she has something to hide, or something else!. Any ideas why she is doing this, or what I can do with my *needs*
I don't want to put her some where she doesn't want to go but I need something!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I don't want to put her some where she doesn't want to go but I need something!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
5 months is not very long; if you plan to marry, give yourselves much longer to make sure you're suited for life!.
Meanwhile take things very gently!. For girls, sex is very much a response to love; if she really loves you, she should gradually permit, and want, greater intimacy!.
I expect she did know she was feeling your erection; girls are programmed to enjoy that feeling!. Don't worry too much about hiding it; after all, she can't hide her breasts!
Spend plenty of time together doing things you both enjoy - sex is only part of the equation, now or in the future!. Develop your own interests and hobbies too, so that you have other outlets for your energy, then masturbation will become less important!. You could investigate other techniques too!. Many guys never get beyond the basics, and miss out on a lot of pleasure!.
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http://www!.jackinworld!.com/expert/index!.!.!.!.
At the bottom of each page, click on "to next page" until you reach the end of the section!.
In the expert section, some of the techniques are a bit strange; you should heed any warning to be careful, and be sure to keep everything clean!. Just about every possibility is included here!. We're all different - just try what appeals to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Meanwhile take things very gently!. For girls, sex is very much a response to love; if she really loves you, she should gradually permit, and want, greater intimacy!.
I expect she did know she was feeling your erection; girls are programmed to enjoy that feeling!. Don't worry too much about hiding it; after all, she can't hide her breasts!
Spend plenty of time together doing things you both enjoy - sex is only part of the equation, now or in the future!. Develop your own interests and hobbies too, so that you have other outlets for your energy, then masturbation will become less important!. You could investigate other techniques too!. Many guys never get beyond the basics, and miss out on a lot of pleasure!.
http://www!.jackinworld!.com/howto/ht!.html
http://www!.jackinworld!.com/expert/index!.!.!.!.
At the bottom of each page, click on "to next page" until you reach the end of the section!.
In the expert section, some of the techniques are a bit strange; you should heed any warning to be careful, and be sure to keep everything clean!. Just about every possibility is included here!. We're all different - just try what appeals to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Wow! 14 times a day is a bit much!. But if she is telling you NO until marriage, then you need to either respect that, or move on!. If you don't plan on marrying her, the second option may be best for you!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
check for an adam's apple!.!.!. right now!.!.!.!. go! ;-)
there are many things you can still get into anyway ;-)
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there are many things you can still get into anyway ;-)
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For goodness sakes take a cold shower and respect the girl!. Instead of masturbation so much work out at the YMCA join a sport find other activities, if priests abstain can't you till your marriedWww@Answer-Health@Com
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