My boyfriend and i had sex last night and.....?!


Question: My boyfriend and i had sex last night and!.!.!.!.!.!?
he ejaculated after about 20 seconds
i mean, hes always been a quick cummer if you get what i mean!.!.
he only lasts normally 15 - 20 minuets
but 20 seconds!?!

why could this be!?
and what can we do to make him last longer

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Answers:
Make sure he pleases you first with his fingers or mouth, and then when you're happy he can go for it with you! As you say, that's OK with you - and he will enjoy it even if it only lasts 30 secs!. He could train himself for longer, there are sites on the internet to help men last longer!. Search for
"how to last longer in bed"!Www@Answer-Health@Com

If he's not had any 'release' for a longer than usual time, that could be the answer!. In terms of what to do to make him last longer, well everybody is very different!. Some guys find that if this happens to soon, then if they try again later, the second 'session' lasts a bit longer, if you see what i'm getting at!.!.so maybe doing something earlier in the day to 'take the edge off' would help with a session later on!. I don't know what contraception you use, but if he is very 'sensitive' down there, wearing a condom could help if he doesn't already!. And I believe that now, you can buy condoms that have a mild local anaesthetic inside them to reduce sensitivity slightly!. There are also ways he could be 'trained', bringing him slowly to a certain point, but then stopping, repeating this several times!. You will find more on this topic by doing a google search i'm sure, I don't think we can be too graphic on here! Finally I would say that he should probably 'sort you out' before he has his fun, if you see what I am saying!.!.!.but also, you say 15 - 20 minutes is his usual, and you talk as if that isn't very long!. Well from what I have read, it is seriously above the average! Take a look at this article!.!.
http://www!.timesonline!.co!.uk/tol/news/uk!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Erectile dysfunction is a complicated issue!.

It could be mental or physical!. I'm not an expert!. I think he or you should do some reading about it, as there is lots of stuff out there about it!. What you are describing is a very small issue and is likely due to self-control!. ie - he needs to learn it!.

Kegel exercises help alot with this!. Look them up, they strengthen the muscles involved with peeing or ejaculating and both men and women can do them!. They are easy to do!. Women use them after childbirth to make the vagina tigher again (and can increase pleasure), and men use them to get harder erections and for better self control!.

It's a minor issue he shouldn't be self conscious about it!. Don't be afraid, seek out the answers!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

You probably just turned him on lots!.!. and its only happened once right!? No need to be concerned!. 15-20 minutes is NOT coming quick!.!. infact the average for guys without premature ejaculation is 6 minutes, you should be thankful!. Unless it keeps persisting I wouldn't get worried, probably a once off!.!. tell him to chill!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you might just have to skip the playing getting too aroused bit and just get on then fiddle after or there is the start and stop technic when u feel like u r going to *** u stop then start again over a couple of weeks your body will get use to this then u will start lasting longer plus its so nice to hear some woman say even though this is happening she still loves him !Www@Answer-Health@Com

LOL wow that is quick!. God and i thought my 1 minute ex was bad!.!.!.haha sorry jk!. Had it been a while since you two had sex!? 15-20 minutes really isnt that quick its pretty average compared to most men!. Small shallow movements while having sex will also increase his time!. Check this website out, it lists 10 ways to makehim last longer and they are all very doable!. No pun intended hah :P

http://www!.menshealth!.com/mhlists/Last_L!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Go a little easy on the foreplay!. If he normally lasts 15-20 minutes, then did you stimulate him so much that he spilled in 20 seconds!?
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When hes about to come tell him to take his penis out and just rub it against your vagina until he's ready to continue!. I do this when i want to carry on for longer!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

IT will be ok Try after first time to get him hard 2nd time around last a lot longer I try this and We found he could last 45min to a hour 2nd time!. Let first be for fun oral / hand / dry hump!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

its not his fault you should be pleased that you turn him on so much it will last longer when you have been together for a while!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He was probably just over excited!. The more he gets used to having sex, the longer he'll last!. It just takes time!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just spank his naughty bottom and make him try again as soon as he is able to!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

20 seconds seems fine Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think he done really well!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's not his fault if you are too hot lol!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well he beats my 3 seconds Www@Answer-Health@Com

i think this is a stupid question to ask!.!.
sry!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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