I have a big problem!!!?!


Question: I have a big problem!!!!?
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Im 13 and since I was 11 I had this big problem!. Lots of people told me I was gay and I acted gay and what not!. I am very tired of it and it has to change!.!.!.!. I do get erect when I see a boy that is handsome!. And after I feel bad because my mom expects me to like girls and not men!.!.!. But I dont get erect when I think a girl is pretty!. I want to be strait and DONT TELL ME THAT IS OKAY TO BE GAY BECAUSE IT IS NOT!! I grew up with all girls!. There was not one boy in the house but me!. There has to be a way for me to be attractive to girls AND ONLY GIRLS (strait)!.!.!.!. please help me!.!.!. is there a medication that helps with this problem!.!.!.!.!.!. Im not going to my doctor about it because it is embarrasing!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.ANd in school a girl asked me out!!! I said ok and when I went to class I only went to girls about it and I realized after that this problem has to come to an end!!!!

Please help me my life is going to be lived terribly and short If I continue to have this gay strait problem>>> Please help me!.!.


(I will even get hard If im talking to a boy with a hansome face or something!.!.!.!. IM even getting hard NOW))

Please help me and try and tell me a way so I can change this problem!.!.

Thanks
JasonWww@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
The more you think about it the more of an issue it'll be!.

Your hormones are raging and your just experiencing some of the usual cr*p which kids go through!.

I also went through a stage of being "gay"!. It didn't last!.

Don't sweat it!.!.!. just keep a calm head and ignore the issue for now!. Your too young to be worried about relationships anyway!

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Watch porn, and if u get hard by lesbians ur straight, look up guys and see if u get hard, then u are gay if u do!. But U are born straight, bi, or gay, so you cant change it!. But its okay to be gay, just be cool and u will be fineWww@Answer-Health@Com

GIVE ME A BREAK YOU IDIOTS! Anyone who thinks you are born gay is a complete moron! How about people who are straight most of their lives and then decide to go gay!? Does that chemical JUST kick in 45 years down the road when they decide to be gay!? And it is NOT ok to be gay either! Www@Answer-Health@Com

this is one of the bad parts of being a teenager!. you're mind is everywhere, you don't know who are what you are!. this is due to hormones in your body!. give it time!. just a part of growin up!. it's hard i know, but it won't last forever, okay!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

if ur gay, so what, in middle school, every guy gives you the idea that its wrong 2 b gay, its not!. b proud of who you are! u cant control it, you cant change it, if u r gay, that DOES NOT make you any less of a person! Www@Answer-Health@Com

you told us not to tell you that it is okay to be gay!.

well too bad!. its perfectly fine to be gay!. being gay is not a problem, and there is no medication!. you need to accept yourself, and your mom needs to accept you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

over 75% of male teens at some point or regularly get erections over other males as they are curious, IT DOESN'T MEAN YOU ARE GAY!!, not one to endorse it normaly but if it helps try watching lesbian porn or somethign and see if that does anythnig for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i wonder how many more times you are going to answer this question!.

if you are gay, you are born gay and nothing can change that!. accept it and be proud of who you are!.
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Just accept who you are!. You will have to eventually!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

You're a hormonal teen!.

Get over it!.

This week you're in love with Troy Bolton next week it is lucy pinder!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Grow up!. You aren't funny!.!.!. Quit having queer thoughts and it will stop!.!.!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

go GAP! gay and proud!!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

dude you need to look up some porn right now!.
and masturbate to it

u'll grow out of the gayness!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

look at porn,it helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ease up on your self!. You need to allow some growing time in years!. There is a natural stage of puberty where boys are attracted to boys!. It happens around 12 or 13!. Some boys pass through it quickly and other take longer!. You may be at this stage and it is confusing because all of a sudden a guy really does like looking at boys!. Now you do need to talk with someone about this so it would be good to find a sex counselor eventually!. Remember just because your penis becomes erect does not mean you have to do something with it!. It will go down and become soft if you ignore!. Also, take time to masturbate a lot in private!. You need to help your self develope more sexually and this will help!. It will also help to cut down on the arousal stages!. Just because you relate well to girls and are comfortable talking with them does not mean your are effeminate or less masculine!. Do me a favor!. To night before going to bed go to the bathroom where there is a tall mirror!. Get totally naked and stand in front of it!. Look at your self and your penis!. Take note you have a penis, You have a scrotum!. You are a man!. Do not let all the other stuff confuse you!. Good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

Being gay is not a problem, and not accepting this orientation is the problem in our society!. so before you question your own sexual orientation, you need to realize that everyone, EVERYONE is different!. It enrages me that people are so caught up on this!.
If you are gay, people will not think lesser of you!. That's simple, unless your surrounding crowd has the same view on this subject as you!. Hopefully they are mature enough not to have this outlook!.
Personally, I think you are going to grow out of it!. Often we are attracted to those of the same sex due to the success or the motives of the person!. The boys or men that you are attracted to may be at a higher level then you!. Actors, businessmen, the QB on the football team!. They are in a desirable place and you may envy that and are attracted to that position and thus, the image or person that goes along with it!. This makes you sound gay, but you may not be!. If you are gay, or bi or whatever, please don't be upset!. That is so wrong!. And if you aren't gay, then do not think lesser of the person!. I am straight, but I have a really good friend who is gay and he is one of the nicest people I have ever met!. To look down upon him would be crazy!. good LuckWww@Answer-Health@Com

Honey, you are only 13!. It is ok to not be getting erect when you see a pretty girl!. You probably haven't experienced a true love connection with a girl yet!.
There is a difference between lust and love!.
When you are getting erect because of a boy with a handsome face, it doesn't mean you are gay!.
What others have said about you is not necessarily true!.
You sound like you have strong beliefs about what is right and what is natural!. Go with that!.
Your mind and feelings sound like they are being swayed by what others have said to you in the past!. But what they have said doesn't have to dictate who you are going to be!. You have the power and strength to do that!.
It would be natural for your mind to explore what what they have said!. It may even be natural at this age to explore!.

Give yourself time to sort through this!. You don't have to beat yourself up over your thoughts!. You are not the first and probably won't be the last!.
Ask yourself what you are seeking from another boy!. Maybe it is friendship or love, like a fathers love, or acceptance!.
You might be mixing those needs with things that have been said to you and your mind is getting it all confused!.
You can straighten the confusion in your mind out!. Break it down in little parts!.
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you are absolutely right!. being gay is not ok!. as a matter of fact, it goes against everything I believe in!. I have an older brother who was the only boy in the house, and he moved out before my younger brother was born!. He often has problems like this, and it is just something that happens to guys when they have all sisters!.try and hang out with your girlfriend more, and try to not think about whether or not a guy is hot!. just think of them as friends!. try and look at how other guys act around girls, and figure out why guys find girls so attractive!. you still have plenty of time to sort this out!. don't do anything rash(suicidal), pray for an answer (James 1:5) and you will know what to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

"you are absolutely right!. being gay is not ok!. as a matter of fact, it goes against everything I believe in!. I have an older brother who was the only boy in the house, and he moved out before my younger brother was born!. He often has problems like this, and it is just something that happens to guys when they have all sisters!.try and hang out with your girlfriend more, and try to not think about whether or not a guy is hot!. just think of them as friends!. try and look at how other guys act around girls, and figure out why guys find girls so attractive!. you still have plenty of time to sort this out!. don't do anything rash(suicidal), pray for an answer (James 1:5) and you will know what to do!.
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James 1:5 new testament king James version holy bible!."

Right on! It is awesome that there are still people out there like you that stand up for what they believe in! Good job! :-)

And as for these other people, do NOT listen to them!. Don't be proud of that! Since when did being a *** become something to be proud of!?!!?! Just keep thinking about girls or whatever you have to do!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Jason, my young friend !.!.!.!.!.

Our Sexual orientation is derived at Birth thru our genetic markers !.!.!.!.!.

There is NO medicine, No herbs, Exercises , Books, or Videos !.!.!. that will make you str-8 IF you are rally Gay !.!. No matter how much you want it !.!.!.

And; I know you do NOT want to hear it ; BUT !.!.!.!. who says it is wrong to be Gay !? It is a natural orientation given and assigned to you by God !.!.!.!.!.

If you THINK the Bible is against being Gay ; THINK AGAIN ! Just go to: http://Gayxjw!.org/HomBible!.html/

God Bless You !.!.!.!. Do mORE research and you will find being gay IS OK with God and more civilizied and tolerant people !.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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