I think my son is masturbating what do i do? should i ask him? or talk to him?!


Question: I think my son is masturbating what do i do!? should i ask him!? or talk to him!?
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No
leave him too it
it is embarrassing if your parents know your masturbating
even though most parents know there sons are!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I know your son is masturbateting!. 99% of ll males do!.
Andno don't say anything to him because it's none of your busness!. It's his!. This is something parent's shouldn't talk to their son about!. You can tell him it's normal and everything and about the topic but don't talk to him about him doing it because that's just wierd!. I would want my mother or father to stay as far away from that subject with me as possible what I do in my room is my buisness!.


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I'm in my mid-40's!. I can easily remember the guilt I felt as a teenager, everytime I masturbated!. My dad and I were not close, at all!. So, I would have been mortified if he'd tried to initiate a conversation about self-pleasure, with me!. However, if our relationship had been one like some other guys had with their dads!.!.!.!.!.!.!.the type in which dad and son could have candid conversations about anything!.!.!.!.!.!.I honestly believe I would have welcomed that talk!. I have a couple of friends, today, that have that sort of relationship with their sons!. And, I know of some of the talks they've had!. I admire them for it!.!.!.and, I think their sons are very fortunate to have dad's like that!.

Today's teenage guys may be somewhat different than when I was a that age!. I am inclined to think they are more open minded!.!.!.more comfortable with their sex drive and the physical need to satisfy!. I think maybe they are more open with their friends and are aware of the fact that all guys masturbate (unlike myself!.!.!.thinking I was the ONLY one "commiting the sin")!.

All this to say, if you and your son have a close relationship, perhaps it would be good to have this discussion!. But, if y'all are not close!.!.!.umm!.!.!.!.I wouldn't do it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well its a normal thing to do for an adolescent!.!.

you can talk to him and tell him its alright as long as he's not doing it in public, coz it may indicate psychological disorder!.!.!.

and this would also be the best time for you to give him "lessons" about sefe sex!!

i hope i did able to help you!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

What would you ask him!? And why you ask him about it!? Do you want to give him pointers!? It's something a guy/girl does in private!. It's no one's business!. Don't invade his privacy on this one!. If it's involving sex, then have the talk, but not something that is already a private act!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

did you ever!.
did your mom and dad !. say hey son!. are you masturbating!?
let him be !. unless he is at it!. like a monkey in the trees after nuts and he cant stop !. he might need help!. bring it to his attention that he might beable to other thing with his hands like home work!.!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Moms out there!.!.!. You can talk to your sons about it but what you should be saying is don't become consumed with it and tell them to do in privacy!.!.!. Please for the love of God do not embarrass him!.!.!. you could ruin him for life!.!.!. You don't want him to have a complex!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's none of your business if he's masturbating!.

If he's in puberty, more than likely he is masturbating, but why is it any of your business!? It's his body, and you'll just embarrass him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It's a normal thing for him to do (I'm 19 and I do it!.) I would be soooo scared/embarassed/angry if my dad asked me about it!. Just leave it to him, it's a normal thing for guys to do!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

MY SUGGESTION IS DIFFERENT
i suggest you to marry your child if his age permits,otherwise arrange secretaly a girl for his satisfaction, A fter a few days donot hesitate to discuss the topic of sex,guide him !.I am sure he will !.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

That is a perfectl normal thing to do do!. Leave him alone!.
You did it yourself!. Anyone that denies it is a liar!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I'd be interested to know!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. HOW YOU KNOW!?!?!?
This is a PERSONAL !.!. PRIVATE!.!. issue, and you need to respect your son!.
You need to love your son UNCONDITIONALLY!.!.!.
So LEAVE IT!.!.!.!.
and go on your way!.

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It's normal, however is it a sin if you are a religious person!. Tell him it can make him go blind, he'll stop!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Don't mention it!If you see him doing it,do not mention it,it will make him feel bad!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

no!!!!!!!!!!!!! dont do anything!. leave him alone!. would u rather him do that or have sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

noooooo!!

he is doing something right!!

you kno, it's actlly healthy for a man jerkin' off once a week!

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No it's a healthy thing for him to do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

leave him alone, Www@Answer-Health@Com





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