Why are guys terrified of me!!!?!


Question: Why are guys terrified of me!!!!?
Ok, there is a guy in one of my classes at school!. For a long time, I thought he was secretly in love with me because every time i walked past him he would stare at my face!. when there was a large number of people around and he was standing with his friends he would stare directly at me!. one time he stared over 30 seconds when he thought I didn't notice!. He brushed up against me when I wasn't in his way and was always glancing at me in class!. I am shy when it comes to guys so I never looked back at him or confronted him!.

We sit at the same table in class because of assigned seats!. it went well for a little while!. we didnt talk much but when we worked on problems together he would give me deep eyecontact and just stare at me alot in class when he thinks i dont notice!.
but now i think he has become terrified of me and is avoiding me!. he begged the teacher to let him work in another group!. he doesn't like to work in my group!. he moves to another seat whenever possible, but when he does move to the other seat he stares at me alot and keeps glancing back at me whenever i answer a question!. if he can't move seats, he just moves as far away from sitting near me as possible so i cant even ask him questions about problems because he moves so far away!.

when i try to talk to him and give him a question that gives him a way to talk to me, he will not even look back at me and he will answer but look the other way when answering and pretend he doesn't even see me!.!.!?!?!?!. it is really weird!. and when he says something it sometimes makes no sense so maybe he is nervous!? he has not even missed a day of class in about 2 years but now we sit together he misses class more and arrives late to class when before he was never late!. so he tries to avoid me!.

i was wondering, why does he do this!? do i scare him!? i think i do!. but why!? i am a nice person never mean to anyone!. i used to like him, he has no idea i liked him, but now i am not so sure!. this is just too weird!. how can i make him calmer around me!? does he like me or is he scared of me!? i feel really bad/guilty because i think he is missing school b/c of me!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Maybe!.!.just maybe he has no idea what you are thinking!. Best if you tell him you like him and see what he says!. He may be more shy than you and the reason he misses class is because he's love sick over you!. Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Hes jsut nervous,shy

He could be deeply in love with you,and if you dont like him back that will ruin him!.

I know how he feels I too stare at a girl all the time,we always stare at eachother from across the gym!. Shes beautiful thoWww@Answer-Health@Com

He just sounds like a psycho to me!. If you don't want to end up in a body bag or in an abortion clinic after being raped I suggest go after another guy that isn't weird!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

maybe he loves you and is really nervous that he really wants to get away before he does something wrong!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

because your and ugly stalker TOP CONTRIBUTER RIGHT HERREEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BEST ANSWERRR (:Www@Answer-Health@Com

He was highWww@Answer-Health@Com

i think he likes you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i love you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

only GOD KnowsWww@Answer-Health@Com

wow hes a weird one lol

maybe he liikes you so much that he doesnt want to mess things up
i bet hes nervous
maybe you should try being more forward with your feelings for him
if you like him flirt with him

or ask him why hes being sucha noob latley

but yea what ever you feel should be done!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It doesn't matter, you will only be in contact with 1% of ALL people you went to school with and knew after about 2-3 years of high school so you can just let it blow over!.

I did something similar to a girl in junior high!.!.!.I had issues though when I was younger lol but I never took it to the extreme and MISS class over it jez!.

You should swallow whatever pride / shyness you have and confront him though, life is short and school years are even shorter - who knows what can happen I'm just stating the facts afterwards!. I don't know why girls always wait for guys to make the move, this isn't 1950!.

EDIT: Is he good looking, are you good looking!? Do you have alot of friends!? Does he have alot of friends!? All those play factors into comfort zone!. If your physically intimidating for the average guy to hit on you I'd suggest making your move fast!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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