I need help with my boyfriend??!!?!
Question: I need help with my boyfriend!?!?!!!?
i have been going out with my boyfriend for about seven months now!. a couple of weeks ago, i got really drunk, and i cheated on him!. it was the biggest mistake of my life!. i love my boyfriend so much!. i told him and he broke up with me!. after a couple days of being apart, we got back together!. im not the type of girl who does this I've never done it before and i feel so bad about it!. i know that he is not going to be as "lovey dovey" as he was before this happened, but its been two weeks since we got back together and hes still a little stand offish!. and still no sex!. will he eventually over come this and put it in the past!? when!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
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It's good that you told him because this will give him a chance to forgive you in the future!. However, cheating on a spouse is a serious matter and he probably feels betrayed!. It is your responsibility to give him space and time to truly forgive you but also remember that he will likely never forget!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Getting drunk is such a bad habit in the first place!. What you you did under the influence will never go away!. Things may pick back up between you two, but there will always be that nagging thought at the back of his mind about whether you'll do it again or not!.
You have to wait things out, earn his trust!. There's not much more you can do!. If you really want the sex, I guess you could make suggestive moves/actions: Get close to his areas that most turn him on, lower the lighting, make situations romantic!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You have to wait things out, earn his trust!. There's not much more you can do!. If you really want the sex, I guess you could make suggestive moves/actions: Get close to his areas that most turn him on, lower the lighting, make situations romantic!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Clearly, you are too immature for a serious relationship!.
I believe you and first boy should not have had a sexual relationship, as it seems that is all it was!. If it had been more, you would not have "cheated"!.
As for being "back": if I were he I would not have a sexual experience with you until you had been examined, tested, and have written proof of freedom from STD's!.
Frankly, I would not have reunited with you as you are such a child!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I believe you and first boy should not have had a sexual relationship, as it seems that is all it was!. If it had been more, you would not have "cheated"!.
As for being "back": if I were he I would not have a sexual experience with you until you had been examined, tested, and have written proof of freedom from STD's!.
Frankly, I would not have reunited with you as you are such a child!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well if he's smart he will dump you and never speak to you again!. I have been wasted more than my fair share and I have NEVER cheated on anyone!. Saying 'oh I was drunk' is NOT an acceptable excuse!. No one is drunk enough to not know even in the slightest what they are getting themselves into unless they were raped! You have crossed the line and he needs to move on!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If your relationship lasts long enough, then it'll happen soon!.
You might have to wait 2 years or so, because that hurts guys A LOT!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You might have to wait 2 years or so, because that hurts guys A LOT!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
let him go there will allways be that stigmata between you!. it will be more of a strain to try and keep this going than to just let it go!.
From a dudes point of view: What gaurentee do i have that she will not do it again!? Some other dudes unit was in her where mine was!. Some other dudes body was against where my body was!. his nuts were on her his stuff is now in her!. I thought what we had was special but she threw it away!. i guess she i really didnt mean as much to her as she did to me!. How could she do that to me!.
Let him go
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From a dudes point of view: What gaurentee do i have that she will not do it again!? Some other dudes unit was in her where mine was!. Some other dudes body was against where my body was!. his nuts were on her his stuff is now in her!. I thought what we had was special but she threw it away!. i guess she i really didnt mean as much to her as she did to me!. How could she do that to me!.
Let him go
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