How can I decrease the sexual need?!


Question: How can I decrease the sexual need!?
I'm 26!. I've been married once, and having been left, am going out with a wonderful girl, who's 21!. About 2 months into our relationship, we experimented sexually with a few things!. I will be her first, but she wants to wait for things to get too involved (i!.e!. intercourse) until she's married!. (yes, she is a virgin)!.

Well, after a week of experimenting, she decided she wanted to stop touching, or showing, or!.!.!. anything!. This is very frustrating for me, as I'm a passionate person!. Not necessarily horny, but I do feel a great need, or urge, to please her!. Having pleased her twice, I feel the need is so much greater, but then she wants to stop until we've been together longer, and!.!.!. I'm so frustrated, because I want to respect her wishes, but!.!.!. I find my hands gravitating towards her breasts or whatnot when we're alone!.!.!. I know most people would say "Don't be alone, then"!. But that's difficult as well, as I have very little money to be going out to do stuff!.

I just want to know if there's anyway, short of drugs, that I can decrease my sexual drive!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
get hitched!. she sound like a really great, respectable girl!. and it also sounds like you shouldn't let this one get away!.!.!.there are very few 21 year old virgins out there!. more than likely she has her priorities stright and will be someone you can depend on!.

so push that divorce through or whatever you have got to do!

otherwise, don't pressure her to do anything!. she has made it this far resisting, and she should be proud of herself!. don't make her do something she will regret just for the pleasure of the moment!.

anyway, buy some board games or something!. rent documentaries on the consequences of premarital sex, like unwanted pregnancy and diseases!. that'd be a real buzzkill!.

good luck to yall!! and she sounds like a keeper, so just be patient!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Stop seeing her or marry her quick!. If you keep seeing her, you will keep wanting her!. On the other hand, if you marry her, you will have her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Just try not to think about it whenever it comes into your head, just replace it with a different thought!. KEYWORD: try!. hahah it's very hard for men who have been sexualy active to stop wanting/thinking about sex but you should definately NOT get on any kind of pills or drugs to make you want this any less!. This is just a man's nature and maybe if you give it 2 months she will be ready to be active with you and it could be some of the best intercourse you've ever had cuz you've actually waited for it!. As for me, i'm very sexualy active for a woman and i don't think i could be in a realationship without sex haha but that's very sweet of you to respect her like that!. Good luck! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com





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