Phimosis - I think my boyfriend has it?!


Question: Phimosis - I think my boyfriend has it!?
I was reading about it and it suits the description of what he has at the moment but for some reason he won't listen to me when I say "go to a doctor" and he just whines about it and gets cranky with ME because we can't have sex!. It's getting annoying (his mood) and I love him a lot and realized I can go without sex for a little bit but he's not planning on ever getting his penis looked at my a professional!. Ugh!. It's so frustrating!. I'm trying to be supportive but with him acting the way he is, it's getting harder!. I need some help!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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You are in luck!. Its common and in fact all foreskins are like that at first!. They get loose only if we play with them a lot and aome kids don't even masturbate daily like they should for proper health!.

You see Sperm has a shelf life and like your period your egg also has a shelf life!. Your period flushes it out in favor of a new one!. With males The big bad M word is actually vital!.

Foreskins loosen up with use!.

A foreskin will stretch to three times its normal size, and over time even more than that!.

In a hot tub of water have him soak for a long time!. Using baby oil he can lube it up!. Inserting fingers into the opening he can stretch the opening up and hold it there for several minutes and continue to repeat this untill the opening finally is permanently stretched!. Every kid gets this who has a foreskin!. How do I know!. Mine was a tight one too!. Nature made them like this!. Its like your Hymen!. Nature wanted the foreskin to contact the glans, and to insure this they are tight when you first get one!. In fact the foreskin is part of the glans when we are first born!. It separates over years and by 5 or 6 a boy should be instructed to separate it by pulling his foreskin back!.

I should add the small changes over time are in call here!. It will take a few months of this training to get the right fit!. You are in luck because sex with a foreskin is 100 times better for the girl too!.

4 out of 5 adult women prefer un-cut sex because its smooth and less rug burn like!. He might be a bit worried to go to a Doctor!. In the U!.S!. doctors don't yet know what one is!. They even don't have them!.

One thing for sure!.!.!. NEVER get it cut off and never take such a position!. A penis with no foreskin later becomes dried up and essentially useless to the male!.

Hope this was your best answer!.

After a year he should be able to fit 4 to 5 fingers in there!. Trust me!. He is fine, and needs a little help that's all!.

Most kids like this did not play with themselves enough, and American society frowns on it, but Masturbation is vital to both males and yeap!.!.!. You too!. If you are not doing so you should be, and he needs to feel comfortable both doing himself and knowing you do your self!.

Sorry if this feels like a personal reply!.!. My goal is the correct answer, and that is all I am after in this!.

Helping other males with foreskin questions is something I do because I know people in the U!.S!. have very little information about them and many people have never even seen one!.

Its nature and knowing what I know about mine has helpped a great deal to many!. That is why my name out here is , well SKIN!.!.

Good luck and tell him you spoke to a pro!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Tell him if he doesn't go to the doctor, he can just shut up about it and keep his bad temper to himself!. That's what I'd expect a woman to tell me if I had some problem that kept me in pain and prevented us from having sex but I refused to go to the doctor!.

Also, let him know that if he's waiting for the magic penis fixing pixies to show up and sprinkle some sparkly penis dust on his privates and they'll magically heal, it ain't gonna happen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

9 times out of 10 this problem can be self-treated privately at home!. Rarely will a circumcision be necessary!.
If he does indeed have a tight foreskin preventing it pulling back, he needs to do some stretching exercises, ideally in the bath/shower, every day for a few weeks!. Follow the instructions on this website:
http://www!.geocities!.com/restoremaine/ti!.!.!.

If he struggles to make any improvement after a few weeks then he should ask his doctor for a topical steroid cream to put on the tight foreskin!.

This website also has some more general advice:
http://www!.norm-uk!.org/circumcision_alte!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Phimosis isn't all that uncommon in uncircumcised men!.!.!.it is impractical for you to diagnose it by yourself though!.
The best you can do is continue being supportive and try getting a doctor to have a look!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If phimosis is causing him problems then he must swallow his pride and go to the doctor!. It won't get better on its own!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He might have phimosis, but if it's not too serious it might be a little better to suggest a few sites first before just saying, "Go to a doctor!." There are things he can do himself to "fix" phimosis without going to a doctor!.

The first thing he should try are stretching exercises!. In one stretching exercise, he should take 2 fingers (one from each hand), "hook" each finger on either side of the foreskin opening, and stretch in opposite directions (like he's trying to increase the diameter) as much as possible without pain or discomfort!. It might be a good idea to use a little lube or lotion to make sure the skin isn't sore!. Stretch and hold for 20 sec or so, then let it relax for 20 sec, then repeat for 5-10 minutes each day!. It's best to do this after a shower/bath when the skin's the most flexible!.

It may take a month or two for that to work though, so a bit of patience is necessary!. There are alternatives that'll help and/or speed things along, such as certain creams that help loosen the foreskin!. But these alternatives also require a doctor's prescription!. There are also minor surgical procedures (not a circumcision) that specialized doctors can perform!.

In any case, he should take a look at the links below, as they have lots of helpful info!. Best of luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

that is an extremely rare condition so i doubt it, more then likely its just in his headWww@Answer-Health@Com





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