What does it mean when a guy tells you you make him feel "SECURE"?!


Question: What does it mean when a guy tells you you make him feel "SECURE"!?
What exactly does it mean; if I guy tells you (in all seriousness) that you make him feel "secure" - when the two of you are being 'intimate!?'

I understand that it's probably simply that it's referring to feeling secure about his body & performance!.!.!.but I wanted to know if there was any underlying means to it!.

Especially, when it is coming from a guy who previously was in an emotionally & mentally abusive relationship with another girl for years prior, and the two of you are all but 'officially' BF/GF!. (mostly because he, naturally, seems to be too scared of a relationship, now)Www@Answer-Health@Com


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From what you've said i would say that he means he feels secure around you and that he doesn't think you will hurt him!. If he really had an abusive relationship then he probably doesn't want to enter into another one unless he's certain he won't be hurt!. in which case you should feel really pleased with yourself, you obviously make him feel really cared for and wanted!. keep up the good work and I imagine that you will be official in no time :DWww@Answer-Health@Com

I think he feels comfortable enough with you that he can feel it's okay to be himself!. People feel insecure when a relationship is unstable - if they are treated poorly, criticized, abused mentally they can start to feel uncertain about themselves and lose confidence!. The greatest compliment a partner can receive is when someone tells them they feel secure - they feel safe!. I doubt it's just about body & performance since there's so much more involved in relationships!. You've created a situation in your relationship where he feels safe and feels that he can express himself without criticism or abuse - be very happy for him, and for you, this is about the nicest thing that could happen in a relationship!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

It means the guy should be treated by a psychiatrist!.

If his previous relationship was that bad you can't expect his new one (with you) to be any different!. Thumbs down me if you want!.!.!. I dont care!. Just bookmark this page and come back to it when the cycle repeats itself!.

Get rid of this joker and find an older guy who is secure and has no baggage!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Maybe he means he is really comfortable with you all in all!.!.!.
and he sees that when being intimate what that person!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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