Guys, please help me out here?!


Question: Guys, please help me out here!?
Ok im 16 years old and gay!. how should i tell my parents!? they have no clue!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


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Nick how do you think your parents are going to take it!? If you think your parents are going to do well with it then take them aside just the 3 of you and gently let them know!. If you don't think they will do well with it i see no reason to tell them until your 18 and able to support yourself!. There is that chance they could flip out and disown you and if your 18 you could possibly support yourself if they ask you to leave!. One question what would be the reason you need to tell them now!? Is it possible that you could live with not telling them Right now!. You could gently ease into it by dropping hints and then when you tell them it will not be as much of a shock to them your still young dude!.

Good luck
peace dude
curtdudeWww@Answer-Health@Com

ok kid,
you do not need to scream it out loud to the world if it was the case, you wont be the first nither the last so nothing to be worried about!.
dont tell your parents 'cause im sure they already know, they saw us born, grow and know most about our behavior!.
you might think they do not notice it but yes they do!.
just live your live the way you choose to live it and be happy
remember that you live once only!.
good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com

I see no reason why you need to make an announcement!. Act as you normally act!. Do the things you like to do and do them with the people you like to be with!.
If your parents have any questions to ask, let them take the initiative!. You can tell them the truth at that time!.
You have nothing to be ashamed about or embarrassed about!. Be yourself!Www@Answer-Health@Com

well nick,,, being 16 means you still have to live under their roof!.!.!. if you think that there is any chance that they will not be accepting of this announcement then you should wait til' your self supporting!.!.!. i was 19 before i told my parents, and out of the house at college!.!.!. my dad had no idea and was totally shocked!.!.!. my mother had a feeling about it after she found some evidence that clued her in i found out,,, but she had pretty much denied it to herself too!.!.!. i don't know what your background is but if you think there is gonna be any flack,,, wait!.!.!. it took my folks over 5 years to come around,,, i feel in my heart that they love me, but my dad still has a lot of hurt!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Tell them that one of your FRIENDS is gay- and see how they react!. Make sure they understand that you're good friends with the guy- and knew him before you knew that he was gay!. SEE HOW YOUR PARENTS REACT!. If they react nicely, then that's a sign that they'll easily accept you being gay!. If they react badly!.!.!. well then!.!.!. good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I would tell them but im not gay, but i would tell them!. It really doesn't matter what they say, that doesn't concern u!. If that's how u want to live ur life, being gay then go do that!. don't care wat ppl say or what ur parents say!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

it depends on a lot of things!. are your parents liberal!? how would they react!? it might not be necessary to tell them at this point, especially if they react badly and it worsens your relationship!. basically it depends on how you think they'll receive itWww@Answer-Health@Com

okay, I'm going to do my best, but why do they need to know!. that's up to you!. your 16 you may not be!. but I'm sure they may already know!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

pertend your not then say mom/dad then laugh a bit what would you say if i was gay but dont act all suspious and aviod looking seriousWww@Answer-Health@Com

I'm sure they know!. If they don;t try blasting some madonna in your room or ask them to take you out to musicals when they come into town!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I agree with both the girls!. Depends on how your parents will take it and if you are 100 percent sure you are gayWww@Answer-Health@Com

well, i'm not gay but I answer that seems to usually work out with situations is "just tell them'Www@Answer-Health@Com

ur prob not gay , just a lot of hormones!. ur mind isnt fully developed yet, see where things go!.!.!.then when like 20 u can tell them i guess!. they might care but idk
watever

la la laWww@Answer-Health@Com

Tell them you're a fan of the dick!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

don't tell them
just stop being gayWww@Answer-Health@Com

Thats grossWww@Answer-Health@Com

Your parents won't mind at all if they love you, which I'm sure they do!. It's no biggie any more, I know loads of gay people and don't think any differently of them to other people!. It's about what makes you happy, and carrying a big burden on your shoulders cos you daren't be open and honest isn't going to make you very happy!.
For years my family thought my brother was gay, it turned out he wasn't but we didn't care either way, the only reason we didn't ask him was cos we wanted to let him tell us in his own time which is what you need to do!.
All I can say is take a deep breath and tell them it's never as bad as you think!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I don't think anyone here who has been, has the right to tell you that your ''probably not gay, you Just bi, or Curious or just hormones''
becos there ARE people who do 100% know they are gay from very young ages, as young as 10 they know their gay!.
If you are defiantly sure you are gay, just maybe ask them casually
what their views are on bi Sexual relationships, or bring up someone you know is gay or even ask their opinion on gay marriage out of curiosity!.
You don't have to tell them right now, you can wait another few months,
but be confident when you do, don't let them put you down if they don't aprrove, but in these days id find it hard to believe that many parents with teenage children would accept it and be supportive!.

Good luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

you're not gay!. you're only 16!. you're bi curious and experimental!. quit trying to label yourself and don't freak out your parents just yet!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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