WHY ARE SOME MEN LIKE THIS? MATURE ANSWERS!?!
Question: WHY ARE SOME MEN LIKE THIS!? MATURE ANSWERS!!?
I was in a 4 year relationship with my ex boyfriend until he got arrested 5 years ago!. He was my first love & when he got locked up i couldn't stop crying!. He in a dangerous gang, We have some mutual friends(not the gang ones) and whenever some of my friends go for a night out and he's there with friends i try keep my distance from him but i keep getting the feelings i had for him come back to me!. When i leave he follows me out to talk!. although i still love for him i think i did the right thing!. Anyway whenever im dancing he never takes his eyes off me,He gets into my face a lot if i dance with other guys, he grabs my arm if i walk away, he has never once hit me though!. My friends are under the impression he knows he screwed up badly and he doesn't want anyone else to have me, that he is obsessed with me and that can be a major problem when i am dancing or with other guys would that be true!?!. He keeps telling me he wants me back and will never let me go again!. If im at a bar or something he will sometimes come over a put his arms around me & try kiss me or whisper in my ear, but i walk away!. I think im attracted to these kind of men because my father is in jail & he is one of the head men in a Latino Blood Gang!. Im starting counseling soon so maybe that will help!?!
Please give me some advice if you can, thank you so much
-i know a lot of you are going to attack me but all im looking for is some advice-Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please give me some advice if you can, thank you so much
-i know a lot of you are going to attack me but all im looking for is some advice-Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
"He gets into my face a lot if i dance with other guys, he grabs my arm if i walk away,"
ur not his property!. u make the decision who you dance with, talk to, etc!. if he wants to have ANY say in ur life, he has to approach u properly and treat you like a free human being!.
make some clear decisions about what you want for your own life!. then see if he fits into the picture, considering he is with a gang!. that doesn't make him a bad person, but gang life usually leads to death or prison!. if u love this guy and see yourself long term, its best if you both try to do what is in your best interest, live life right, and make some healthy choices!. good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
ur not his property!. u make the decision who you dance with, talk to, etc!. if he wants to have ANY say in ur life, he has to approach u properly and treat you like a free human being!.
make some clear decisions about what you want for your own life!. then see if he fits into the picture, considering he is with a gang!. that doesn't make him a bad person, but gang life usually leads to death or prison!. if u love this guy and see yourself long term, its best if you both try to do what is in your best interest, live life right, and make some healthy choices!. good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Here is a better question!. Why do girls fall for losers and ignore the nice guys!.
Then cry when it dawns on them that thay ended up with a loser!.
Life is a big mystery!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Then cry when it dawns on them that thay ended up with a loser!.
Life is a big mystery!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
What advice can we give!? You're doing the right thing by keeping away from him and also seeking some outside advice!. Be strong!. Be true to yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If he was really into you he'd be prepared to get away from the gang and grow up, since he isnt and since he sounds a bit dangerous I'm thinking you should stay clear of him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Honestly, I think your friends are right!. (He knows he screwed up and wants you back)Www@Answer-Health@Com
well it's simple he still likes you and wants to he with you but if you broke up with him that's the smart thing to do cus I've seen to meany of my cusis girls hitting killed just cus there man is in a gang but he obvisly still likes you
P!.S!. If you see him or yo pops again tell um Bk all day R!.S!.C *****Www@Answer-Health@Com
P!.S!. If you see him or yo pops again tell um Bk all day R!.S!.C *****Www@Answer-Health@Com
As of now you're fine!. But soon he may get worse!. I teach tactical training and I know a problem as such!. You should be carrying protection on you!. Also you will need to know how to use it and understand how important your life is compared to his!. If you follow this path you will be prepared to deal with this problem if it worsens!. If you do pack heat NEVER EVER TELL HIM, or anyone else it may cause a rise in aggression!. Seek therapy and e-mail me if you are willing to follow this path!.Www@Answer-Health@Com