First b***j**....PLEASE ANSWER =P?!


Question: First b***j**!.!.!.!.PLEASE ANSWER =P!?
My bf and I have been dating for about 7 months!. We are both 16 and we haven't really been with anyone else!. We are our first everything!. Anyways, we've been thinking about having oral sex!. I know for a fact that I'm ready, so don't tell me to re-think my decision!. I was just wondering; how will I know before he ejaculates!?!?!? and also, how long do you think he will last!?!?!?
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Answers:
No reprimand here! I'm so glad that you have found someone you love enough to share that experience with!. You'll know he's ejaculating because you'll taste it and feel it!.!.!. in your mouth!. I'm certain you already know this, but it tastes AWFUL!. If you want later you can make him wear a condom when he does this and then you won't have to taste it!.

You'll know he's getting close because he'll be moaning and breathing heavier!. I hate to tell you that you'll just know, but you will!. And for boys, especially young ones, it happens very quickly!. There really is no distinction between orgasm and ejaculation for them!.

Wikipedia has this to say about the phases of ejaculation, it may help you to become more aware and pick up on the little hints he gives you!.

Stimulation
See also: Sexual stimulation

A prerequisite to ejaculation is the sexual arousal of the male, leading to the erection of the penis, though not every arousal nor erection leads to ejaculation!. Penile sexual stimulation during vaginal, oral or anal sexual intercourse, or manual stimulation may provide the necessary stimulus for the man to achieve orgasm and ejaculation!. There are wide variations in how long sexual arousal will last before ejaculation occurs!.

Premature ejaculation is the term used when ejaculation occurs before the desired time!. If a man is unable to ejaculate in a timely manner after prolonged sexual stimulation, in spite of his desire to do so, it is called delayed ejaculation or anorgasmia!. An orgasm that is not accompanied by ejaculation is known as a dry orgasm!.

[edit] Ejaculation

Ejaculation has two phases: emission and ejaculation proper!. The emission phase of the ejaculatory reflex is under control of the sympathetic nervous system, while the ejaculatory phase is under control of a spinal reflex at the level of the spinal nerves S2-4 via the pudendal nerve!. A refractory period succeeds the ejaculation!.

Emission

The beginning of emission is typically experienced as a "point of no return," also known as point of ejaculatory inevitability!. The sperm then passes through the ejaculatory ducts and is mixed with fluids from the seminal vesicles, the prostate, and the bulbourethral glands to form the semen, or ejaculate!.

Ejaculation proper

During ejaculation proper, the semen is ejected through the urethra with rhythmic contractions!.[1] These rhythmic contractions are part of the male orgasm!. They are generated by the bulbospongiosus muscle!. The typical male orgasm can last up to 17 seconds but may vary from a few seconds up to about a minute!. After the start of orgasm, pulses of semen begin to flow from the urethra, reach a peak discharge and then diminish in flow!. The typical orgasm consists of 10 to 15 contractions, each bringing an extremely pleasurable sensation at the head of the penis!. Once the first contraction has taken place, there is no way to voluntarily prevent ejaculation taking place!. The rate of contractions gradually slows during the orgasm!. Initial contractions occur at an average interval of 0!.6 seconds with an increasing increment of 0!.1 seconds per contraction!. Contractions of most men proceed at regular rhythmic intervals for the duration of the orgasm!. Many men also experience additional irregular contractions at the conclusion of the orgasm!.[2]

Semen content

Sertoli cells, which nurture and support developing spermatocytes, secrete a fluid into seminiferous tubules that helps transport sperm to the genital ducts!. The ductuli efferentes possess cuboidal cells with microvilli and lysosomal granules that modify the semen by reabsorbing some fluid!. Once the semen enters the ductus epididymis the principle cells, which contain pinocytotic vessels indicating fluid reabsorption, secrete glycerophosphocholine which most likely inhibits premature capacitation!. The accessory genital ducts, the seminal vesicle, prostate glands, and the bulbourethral glands, produce most of the seminal fluid!. The seminal vesicles produce a yellowish viscous fluid rich in fructose and other substances that makes up ~70% of human ejaculate!. The prostatic secretion, influenced by dihydrotestosterone, is a whitish (sometimes clear), thin fluid containing proteolytic enzymes, citric acid, acid phosphatase and lipids!. The bulbourethral glands secrete a clear secretion into the lumen of the urethra to lubricate it!.

Semen begins to spurt from the penis during the first or second contraction of orgasm!. For most men the first spurt occurs during the second contraction!. A small sample study of seven men showed between 26 and 60 percent of the contractions during orgasm were accompanied by a spurt of semen!.[3]

[edit] Refractory period

Most men experience a lag time between the ability to ejaculate consecutively, and this lag time varies among men!. Age also affects the recovery time; younger men typically recover faster than older men though not necessarily universally so as great variation between indiviWww@Answer-Health@Com

Wikipedia, and Very Needy Boyfriends!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Some advice:

- Start with a hand job so you learn what he likes and can tell when he is about to climax!. In fact - STOP when this happens to tease him (its a lot of fun)!.

- Once you know how to use your hand - you now know that oral is an add-on to using your hand!.

Your mouth cannot really work well for him so a good BJ is you holding your hand to your mouth like blowing a bugle and most of the pressure comes from your hand!. Your mouth is teasing the tip of him and licking him (and the sight of this is outstanding), but the real mechanics - is the hand!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Make sure to wash his penis (or he washes his penis) by retracting his foreskin (if he is not circumcised) before you go for it!. And don't bother about anything else!.!.!. just swallow it!. Initially you may not like it, just gulp it down!. He would love you more if you do it!. Nothing will happen to your health if you swallow it!.
Go ahead!.!.!. keep some tissues handy to wipe your face once it is done!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Do it!. Enjoy it!. It is habit forming for the girl!. When you get used to the flavor (which at first you may even gag on) passion, trust and love or affection will make you want to swallow it!. More importantly, get on birth control pills before you both lose control and ruin your lives by getting pregnant!. That is the worst thing that can happen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

its different for different guys!. i know with my first bj i lasted about 20 minutes but some chick friends of mine have said thta their boyfriends have only lasted 2 minutes

and you'll know when his dick gets harder and maybe gets a little bigger!.!.!.!.!.and when some *** starts squirting outWww@Answer-Health@Com

my first ********Www@Answer-Health@Com

if this is ur first sexual thing doin together then he wouldnt last buy mabye a minute!. if thats the case just make him tell u when hes about to c*m!. u can tell most the time c he might begin to shake or his legs might get stiff!.

if yall have had sex he might last a cple minutes!. just dependin on how good u r!.

im 17 and i can last about 3-4minutes!. ut if u go down on him make sure he returns the favor!. u wont b sorry ;)Www@Answer-Health@Com

personal experienceWww@Answer-Health@Com

hahahaha clearly you aren't ready and too immature if you are asking- "how will I know before he ejaculates!?!?!? and also, how long do you think he will last!?!?!?"

just go to school and stop doing that adult stuff!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Those vary according to the guy in question!.!.!. :)

Maybe you should try (if you haven't) a handj** first, so you could have ideas about his timing and reactions!.

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The best way to find out when he is going to ejaculates is to ask him to tell you!! You can never be shore how long he will last!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

His breathing will become deeper and he'll probably ask you to go faster!. The moment he's about to ejaculate, a huge spasm is going to run down his dick!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

He will last about 5 seconds!. Just ask him to give a love tap first!. ANd once hes down with round one go for round 2 so in all it will be 60 seconds!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

your awesome blow jobs are awesome but get ready to get a white mess splattered all over your mouth in like ten secondsWww@Answer-Health@Com

when his eyes roll in the back of his head then he is ready for lift off and i have know ideahow long he will last on the front lines


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when he's started controlling and gripping your head, that's the time of explosion!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

by hisgroan
at 16 hmmmmm 5 maybe 10 seconds

learn to swollow men prefer itWww@Answer-Health@Com

he probably last like 2 secsWww@Answer-Health@Com

Just tell him to tell u!.!.!.he prolly wont last long unless he masturbates a lot!.!.!.

Good!. Luck!.!.!.!.!.And trust me!.!.!.dont taste the stuff!.!.!.lolWww@Answer-Health@Com

Depends on the guy in question!.!.!.!.!.!.!.at 16 probably 5-20 seconds!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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