How to stop fast ejaculation?!

How to stop fast ejaculation? Rather than allow the anxiety of an early orgasm consume him, some men are looking for the answer of this question. Oh no, not again. Hopefully this is not something anyone exclaims before his sexual climax; however, due to early ejaculation, men all throughout the world are finding it difficult to enjoy sex.

Due to the problem of an early orgasm, many people forfeit large amounts of money on medical treatments. However, these treatments are not always effective and some even numb the satisfaction of sex to help the effected last longer. No need to worry, as there are ways to naturally prevent the accident.

First, to stop fast ejaculation, it is always important to maintain a positive state of mind when thinking about sex. The anxiety associated with inopportune orgasms actually increases the likelihood that it will happen. When extremely stimulated before sex, negative thoughts does not help the issue.

Practicing the situation both mentally and physically promote satisfaction for both partners. Envisioning the act as being a success can help during the high intensity situation. Also, practice good habits. When masturbating, it is important to proceed slowly and not aim to quickly finish. By mimicking the results one wishes to see, early orgasms are less likely to occur.

Since an orgasm is achieved trough the release of tension from the muscles in the pelvic region, it is important to minimize muscle tension there during intercourse. Positions in which the male is over his partner can cause increased tension. By resorting to positions behind and underneath, there is less stress in the pelvic region; thus, there is less of a stress on the muscles to release into an orgasm.

Premature orgasms are a cause for many men to abhor sex. Instead of fearing such a pleasurable act, it is time to start helping oneself by openly speaking with others that can help. Look to change bad habits and naturally alleviate the effects of the problem. Do not let it control life. This is a tip how to stop fast ejaculation.

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The stop-start technique for delaying ejaculation
The aim of these exercises is to learn to keep yourself below the point at which ejaculation seems inevitable for as long as possible. Men who do not have a partner can practice the first three steps. In them selves, they will help you gain a greater measure of control. For the final four steps you will need the co-operation of a partner.
* Step one Masturbate with a dry hand. Avoid fantasizing, and concentrate instead on the sensation in your penis. Allow the pleasure to build up but stop immediately you feel you are about to lose control. Relax for a while, still keeping your mind free of fantasies, until the danger of ejaculation has passed, then begin again. Following the same pattern, aim to continue stopping and starting for 15 minutes without orgasm. You may not be able to manage it at first, but keep trying. As you get more practiced, you will probably find you have to stop less often. When you have completed three 15-minute sessions on three consecutive occasions (not necessarily one immediately after the other!), proceed to step two.
* Step two involves masturbating with a lubricating jelly to heighten sensation, and make delay more difficult. Follow the technique in step one until you have completed three separate consecutive sessions as above.
* Step three You will now have gained a good measure of control. The next step involves masturbating with a dry hand for 15 minutes before ejaculation. Keep focusing on your penis rather than fantasizing. When you feel yourself getting dangerously excited, don't stop, but instead, change rhythm or alter your strokes in such a way that the pressure to ejaculate fades. Experiment to see which strokes excite you most, and which allow you most control. Work on this step until you have completed three consecutive sessions as before.
* Step four Now involve your partner. Lie on your back and get her to masturbate you with a dry hand, as in step one. Concentrate on the sensations in your penis and ask her to stop every time you get too aroused before the 15 minutes is up. The aim is to last for three consecutive 15-minute sessions.
* Step five Repeat step four, but ask your partner to use a lubricant while she masturbates you. You will find ejaculation much more difficult to control, and you may have to ask her to stop more often. Once you have mastered three consecutive 15-minute sessions, you are ready to try the stop-start technique with intercourse.
* Step Six The best position for delaying ejaculation is with the woman on top. Once you are inside her, ask her to move gently. Put your hands on her hips so that you can let her know with your hands when you want her to stop, and when you are ready for her to start again. Again, aim to last for 15 minutes, but if you can't, don't worry; you can start again once you recover your erection, and the second time you will probably have more control. During intercourse, concentrate entirely on yourself. Give your partner your full concentration and bring her to orgasm either before or afterwards, with oral or manual stimulation.
* Step seven Move on to other positions. It is more difficult to delay -ejaculation with the man on top, so save this until last.

I have evidence that masturbation/sex to orgasm can cause harm to some people. There is a documented condition called Post Orgasmic illness Syndrome (POIS) that has been researched recently. This condition can cause pain and exhaustion for hours to weeks after an ejaculation. I have this condition myself and you are welcome to email me if you have further questions or want advice.

Here are links to:

An active forum of about 300 men suffering from this illness. If you post here they will help you. They can also send you copies of the complete scientific study: http://www.thenakedscientists.com/forum/…

Here is a link to a scientific study conducted on the illness: http://www.reuters.com/article/2011/01/1…

Here's the wikipedia page: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Postorgasmi…

Every man is born with premature ejaculation, so having it is perfectly normal – to start with. Controlling ejaculation is something you have to learn just as you had to learn to control your bladder as a child. We get taught to control our bladders but no one teaches us how to control ejaculation.

Do not waste time or money on sprays, vitamins, herbs, dietary supplements or drugs. This is a learning problem and these things will not help you learn to control ejaculation any more than they can help you to learn to speak another language.

There are a lot of high-priced programs advertised online but all you need is an inexpensive little book written by a doctor and sex therapist that has been used successfully for more than 32 years.

It is called "Lasting Longer: The Treatment Program for Premature Ejaculation" by Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D. For more information just enter the doctor’s name in any search engine: Dr. Sy Silverberg M.D.

http://sextherapy-prematureejaculation.com

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distract yourself a little
listen to some music, or think about something non sexy
works for me

When I smoke 5-6 blunts a day and I smoke again before sex it takes me a good 1 hour to 2 hours to come

just relax your left leg andmake sure you relax all together!