Why would he have these photos?!


Question: Why would he have these photos?
I looked at my husband's camera today, after he left for work (was going to print some of our baby as a surprise). Anyway he has loads of photos of his willy on there. In some he is erect. They are very similar to the photos you see on illicit sex dating sites. He used to send pics like this to me when we first started dating, so it makes me sure he's sending them somewhere (they were taken last year so I know they're not for me). I also found butt plugs & penis extensions - used - in his drawer.

I'm in shock & feel sick. He admitted to me last night that he's been avoiding sex with me - because *he says* our daughter is in the room (though up till a month ago it never bothered him). Though he's quite happy for me to give him oral in the room.

He's also went away on holdiay alone - when I was heavily pregnant & then when our baby was 5 months - I saw a photo of his coffee table with two cups - which he explained was because the cups were small so he made two cups for himself. And now he wants to go abroad again, suggesting our daughter & I stay to holiday in this country with my parents, while he goes abroad?

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You already know whats going on, you may not know the extent of it, but you know none the less.
The question now is what do you intend to do about it.
If my spouse went on holiday with out me or our children, I wouldn't be here when she got back. In fact, what would be here are divorce papers.
The cheating is bad enough in and of its self, but what makes it worse is all the lies tangled up with it. As if you aren't smart enough to figure things out.
It is very disrespectful and you have been betrayed.



I think he is getting some sort of sexual relief elsewhere , It may mainly be over internet ,but no guy goes on holiday and spend the whole time alone . Surely the very least he would do is find a mate for some golf . Does he not realise he is a father and family man and that means holidays together . If you can't change him now you never will and I am afraid your relationship is probably doomed



Have to agree with Sunny on this one. Don't think you need a penis extension for yourself (*********, maybe, if you're a sicko).



He's either gay or he's cheating =( i'm really sorry about this. But you don't need a man in your life. Rise up and give that guy a piece of your mind!



i really think you know the answer to that one........
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You need to find time with your husband alone and confront him with the evidence you have and to ask him why. Try suggesting a weekend away with just the two of you, a sort of a marriage building exercise. Ask him how he would feel if he was to find pictures of your vagina on the camera and if you decided to holiday alone. You must be feeling really unloved and uncared for and it is not a nice feeling-but if all fails then as a last resort try marriage guidance counselling. Hope things work out x



I think it is time you two had a very serious talk. One is more committed than the other at this point. With those devices you have found and you have not used them n him he is wanted to or has had them and wants you to us them on him but with you also saying he wants to go abroad. Depending on were that is at sounds more like he is seeking other things. You know him better than anyone here and would have to make a huge decision. If he is out playing around with another how knows what that person has been with. So he is now bringing it home to you as well.



not sure about cheating on u but maybe he is im not sure how a penis extension would benefit him unless he used it for a dildo but it would be the most crappiest one ever. maybe he's trying to be cheap and save money ? lol as for the pictures us guys LOVE to take pics of our self's because secretly we love our self a little too much and for the butt plugs some guys are into that kind of thing we like to feel the sensation of something being in our butt lol hope this helps




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