Male 45. First time marriage blues.?!

This question needs additional information or clarification, like are you getting married first time, is the bride also getting first time married. What is her age? Does the man in consideration has previous sexual experience,etc.
Let us consider that the person is getting married for the first time and it will be his first time experience with sex.
Normally also the first night experience may be very unsatisfactory for many couples as the male cant get erection due to performance anxiety. This is called as Honeymoon impotence, and is a perfectly normal case.
After the age of fourty some new hormonal changes in the males cause additional difficulty in the erection and he requires some stimulation to start with. This is no big deal except the opposite partner has to be explained both the things like honeymoon impotence (absotely normal thing in a health individual.) and age 45 factor.
Balance diet, exercise and healthy lifestyle is the key. Viagra though effective is to be taken under a physician's guidence and permission.
Ayurvedic preperations I wont comment except that they are most unreliable.
Remember the basic thing, Sex is in the mind. Body follows the mind. A successful marriage rests upon the ability to understand each other rest of the things become very easy.
45yrs. is the age which in not old one and you can enjoy the sex for a long time provided you shouldd come out of the mental block, adjust with the anxiety and the late 40 changes, follow healthy life style, exercise and balanced diet.
wish you a very exciting honeymoon and happy married life.

It is true that erections will not b similar to the ones u wud have had during ur younger days.Hope u r getting married to some one slightly younger to u n not to some one who is much younger.Do not go into strong tabs like Viagra initially ,till such time ur body is used to medication.Try to go in for Sildenafil Citrate tabs which can help u to maintain hardness during sex.But u can't take them on a daily basis.Even with a reduced sex drive,one shud b able to perform better by resorting to more of orals.It is more of a mind game.

This is a typical occurrence in men of your age and older. I recommend staying as far away from medication as possible. They have risks and also why take something when there is a more natural method? I highly recommend you get a c*ock ring. Go buy a cheap rubber one, usually by the condoms at the drug store. Then if you like it up grade to a more comfortable leather or metal one. These rings keep blood in the penis, make erections more intense and it helps you last a tad longer. Give them a shot. I really like the feel of mine it's a fun sex toy to have and has more uses than just for ED.

-Connor

there are lots u can do I"m 47 and work no pob. L-Arginine will help big time...plus some Pycnogenol
she better duck and cover...just a thought for u and www.myhardwear.com

It's not normal for a 45 year old man to have erections like a teenager. I'm sorry, but you're just getting older.