Does lacy lingerie mean he wants "some"?!


Question: Does lacy lingerie mean he wants "some"?
I know this is men's health but I'm asking here cause I'm hoping a few men will answer. Don't wanna offend anyone at all. So lemme break it down: I am Catholic & so is my boyfriend. The church teaches 2 NOT have sex before marriage. At 1st my BF & I agreed to 'control' ourselves & NOT go all the way. But the other night we couldn't help it and we did some heavy petting LOL! This morning he left a Victoria's Secret package on my porch with lingerie. We're going out 2night, then to his place. What do you think…is he hoping I'll bring the lingerie and wear it? Is that what guys want when they give that kind of gift? Maybe I should 4get I'm Catholic for the night, lol!

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He wants you to bring it so he can wear it.



He probably does but it doesn't mean he wants to act on it necessarily. He might just like you to wear it and fantasize about it. Wear it if you like but if he does pressure you for sex don't do it if you feel uncomfortable about it.

In the end stick with your beliefs and do what you think is right. Just explain to him as he already knows what your stance is and if he really cares for you he won't push the issue too far.

Good luck.



No he just wants you to feel sexy. Of course he wants to have sex he is a guy



Lacy lingerie does not mean he wants some. Being a guy does.



Um, yes. He wants more from you than just the heavy petting that has occurred so far.
All relationships want to have more and deeper bonding, and for intimate relationships, this means that more skin contact is desired.

You don't have to go as far as he wants. You can always wait longer to discover the type of things that a married couple have. Since this is part of your religion, you should honor that and expect him to do so as well.

If you cannot control these hormonal urges, then look for and use protection when you are ready to have that one special night that will never happen again. Your body is built to be a gift that is given to one man, one time and then sex will be regular after that, and if another man is your husband, then he will not get that special gift of having your first experience with him.

Think carefully, plan if you can't stop yourself and remember that one night could be a lifetime of raising a child if you do this.




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