Have you ever had a penis... problem, when getting down with a female?!


Question: Have you ever had a penis... problem, when getting down with a female?
I have. It's embarrassing and it's happened more than once. I'm not gay because I don't fancy other men. I appreciate the male form, I guess, and am impressed with athletic bodies, but the thought of anything sexual does not arouse to me at all. I look at porn and I definitely like boobs and vagina's, but when I've got down to sex with girls I have had this problem more then once.
I have always had low libido and I used to think it was a self-esteem thing... But I'm 27 now and want to have a fulfilling sexual experience with a woman damn it! I went out with my girlfriend for two years and we were like best friends, but the sex was just not fulfilling! What's wrong with me and how do heighten your libido and desire?

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Perhaps you need to talk to a doctor about this, it sounds like your testosterone level might be low,
although other things can produce the same results.
Some blood work to check on various levels of chemicals and hormones in your system might reveal your problem.



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No, my penis is abnormally large (19 inches), and I've still been able to commit to ****.

But, I'm not bragging or anything >.>



At 27 one would expect you to still have a very high libido. That said people do vary enormously in this, just like in height etc.

From my knowledge it could be: low testosterone; as you said low esteem; performance anxiety (confidence); general anxiety; tiredness; sexual inhibition; even lack of technique; or possibly boredom with your girl.

There again you may not be as 'straight' as you think. However, if you are being honest to yourself and prefer females, then it might be one of the above.

Use the porn or educational books/DVDs to learn some new tricks (caution! most of the performers are professionals and some of the practises can be dangerous).

Another trick is beforehand to masturbate to almost the "point of no return", so that you will eagerly enter the lady.

Might be worth though asking your doctor about a testosterone test or possible (though most unlikely at your age) Erectile Dysfunction.

Life experience!



Ok sir, first of all calm down, your hyperventilating i can see it in your typing, clear as day is bright. Any how back to your original inquiry i would suggest something to you but its commonly frowned upon....=(
So back to the matter at hand you would first need to acquire this "Herbal substance" as i will now refer to my previous notion. The latter was an ingenious sentence designed for the soul purpose to perplex the disaffected heart of your being...now that i have your attention we can allow full intuitive though to course through our minds in a depth of knowledge to finally understand. It is ALL a imaginative block you have created in your mind to not be able to achieve your desired level of "stiffness". Tare those walls down!




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