should I worry that my husband lost his sex drive?!


Question: Should I worry that my husband lost his sex drive?
For the first few years of our relationship we had a very active sex life averaging 3-4 times per week. Lately, I am lucky if we have sex twice a month. He says he doesn't know why, he guesses that his mind is focused on other things now. I am fairly certain he isn't cheating on me. i have had a few health probs in the last year could that be it any info would be appreciated guys.

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You don't give his age, but I'd guess that it will have a lot to do with it.
When I first got into a relationship with my wife we could only get together for sex once or twice a week, but when we did we would manage to do it two or three times.
I was 24 when we got married, and it was once a night, every night, for much of the first six or seven months.
Now we are in our mid 50's it's nowhere near as frequent, and it was a gradual decline in how often we did it.

If your husband is younger than that then there could be a lot of reasons. He could be tired because of work, or he could be under some sort of stress. There could also be physical reasons, such as if he's circumcised he may not be getting so much pleasure physically.

You need to talk with him, and find out if anything has changed. He may be under stress at work, but is keeping that from you so that you don't worry about it.

If you can't talk with him, maybe he should see a doctor, most problems can be resolved.



you need to change it up a bit.
us guys will get bored of the same routine if the same thing happens 3-4 times a week for 2 years.
find some new, fun things to do.
think back to your teenage years and what you used to do then?
or when you were still experiementing on some things.



Initiate foreplay, don't wait for him to do it. Try something spontaneous and unusual, like coming on to him in the kitchen, or a bj while watching tely!



happens to guys every once in a while
lasts some where between a week to a month
any more then that is bad



Omfg what are all the woman going to do without a dick?

So Lame shUT the front door




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