What Do You Think Is Wrong With Me?!
Question: What Do You Think Is Wrong With Me?
Friday i was at my girlfriends house and eventually we got to doing "some stuff"... and she gave me a BJ and a HJ. but the thing is....she gave me an HJ for about an hour and a half (which sucks cuz i hate HJ"s....can do em' myself) and i didnt even get close to coming... not even CLOSE! i thought i would because you know, it was my first HJ and BJ and after all...a cute girl ha.
before i went out with her, i could control myself to come in less then like 3 minutes if i wanted to...but lately i havent been able to til after about 20 30 minutes, minimum.
I think its because she was teasing me for acouple days before that like riding me with our jeans on, laying on me, etc...
i never came that night she gave me an HJ and a BJ... and i BARELY got a *****....kinda weird...
feels like i have the opposite problem of people, i last TOO long.
whats your opinion on why i barely got a ***** and never came....
thanks.
Answers:
When you are in your head and masturbating, your world is restricted to you only, it is easy to please oneself.
It is harder to be with someone who does not know your erogenous zones, and does not do it the way you would do it yourself to get off. When you are with someone you need to communicate. In men, it is pretty uncomplicated, sex comes naturally, we know what to do to get off. Women need to learn, it is not all too natural with them, they too would know how to get off, pressure on the clitoris at a certain angle and voilà!
Teach your girl friend, and tell her you want to learn how to satisfy her as well. Satisfaction is the key here. I can't imagine someone HJ'ing you for 1 1/2 hour... wow, she must have had a bulge on her biceps.
Communicate communicate communicate, and like in real estate, location location location. Both buyer and sellers have to know what the product is and everyone is different.
Good luck
Next time, if its lasting too long, you take control, and stroke it yourself!
Only you know what feels good to you, dude!
I know your not at the sex stage and thats great! But usually the girl finds it quite exciting to watch how you do it!
I had this gf that used to love to watch me, she would then start rubbing herself and before you know it we'd have the most intense sessions ever!
Whatever works dude!
Lol she must've gotten a wicked cramp. Not everyone is turned on in the same places or by the same things. She can't do to you what you do so well to yourself. Teach her, or focus on something else. Maybe try frotting(grinding)
You also might be beating off too much.