My boyfriend can't have a full erection? Why?!
Question: My boyfriend can't have a full erection? Why?
He recently told me that he’s always been not so firm and that it’s getting worse and he ages. The thing is he’s only 25. He recently started going to the doctor’s for help so we won’t find the solution right away. I wonder if he’ll be put on meds will he have to use meds for the rest of his life or is this maybe all psychological?
He grows frustrated and I tell him to relax that everything will be ok but truth is I’m frustrated too. I’m worried we’ll never find a solution.
I’m a very sexual person and I enjoy natural sex with the penis and the vagina penetration not the tongue. I come from a relationship where I had incredible sex and going into one where there’s none is very frustrating. I don’t want to even consider the idea of ever leaving him because of this. I feel that would be selfish but then how could I stay with someone who is missing something I find important.
I’m wondering if this has ever happened to any of you guys out there and how did you cope with the situation? Did you find a solution and how long before you did?
Answers:
Does he lose his erection even after you give him a hand-job too. If he does it probably is just a mental thing too. But that link from the previous one is a good one and even you might find interesting things to help him too. Try different positions too, different positions can also keep a guy hard too. I have even lost my erection for a short time and then tried entering her doggy style and that changed me a lot. Hope this helps,
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KC,
Several thing could be going on.
First, is he masturbating to porn when he is not with you? Has he been doing that for several years? The ready access to porn from the internet changes your brain's stimulation levels. It resets them to a level that you cannot hope to match. That could be one thing.
Second, is he overweight, and very sedentary? Does he exercise? Is he very fit? Body fat, and lack of exercise will depress testosterone levels. It will also cause a decrease in other hormones that supplement male activities. Laying around, eating cheetos, playing video games, then later w@nking off to porn is a sure recipe for a real sex disaster.
Have him turn off the computer/tv/game console, and get active with you. I am always my horniest after a good workout.
You may not like this answer, but I make it with good intent. Perhaps he could try watching some straight porn, just to see if he gets a hard erection and how long for. You shouldn't take it as a personal insult if he watches porn for this reason (which perhaps he should do on his own), but if it works, then his problem may be physiological and perhaps hypnotism may help, along with the doctors help. You sound like a real nice girl so good on ya for looking out for him.