Full Body Massage - Advice?!
Question: Full Body Massage - Advice?
Firstly I am in my early 20's and find that I get aroused quite easily - I do not have any interest in anything sexual happening from this massage at all but would love to be completely at ease. Can anyone tell me more about what happens if I this scenario was to come up? If this has happened in your experience it would put me at ease knowing if there was any awkwardness etc.
Also - I have been reading up about full body massages and read a lot of different things. What is covered in a full body massage?
I am aware that clothing in most places it totally up to your own / the therapists comfort levels and that drapes are used if someone does decide to go naked, I have also read that some actually offer the massage drape free, is this also the case in the UK?
I love the idea of a massage and feel that a nude message with no drapes would be the most beneficial but as I have stated, I have certain worries about certain scenarios and what the procedures are.
I do not want to go in to my first massage stressed to the maximum and making an uncomfortable environment for myself or the massage therapist.
Answers:
Yeh, I was nervous about that at my first one. I just got a semi tho, I think because I was so nervous. I've read on massage therapy websites instructions that tell therapists just to ignore an erection, that it's not personal.
With another therapist I did get a full erection. She just kept doing what she was doing with no comment. It even got uncovered at one point and she just moved the towel back over it. I had been to her before that and several times after. It was not an issue.
Full body massage can vary, but it usually means they rub everything from ur feet to ur scalp - but not ur genitals. It seems to vary how much they rub ur butt and face. Some spend a lot of time on pressure points and/or lymph glands. I like a little of that, but prefer muscle rubbing.
You just have to speak up about what u like. Most r happy to accommodate cause they want ur business. Try diff therapists and locations to find what u like. The best two I've had were women but often women don't have strong hands and rub too lightly for my taste.
Now, if the place offers 'full-release', 'oriental', 'exotic', or 'erotic' then it probably means ur getting a hand job (or more) but prob at an extra charge.
Draping varies. I've said several times, 'could u just cover me here in the middle' and it's never been a prob. I'm like u and prefer to be uncovered. The therapist I went to several times ( the one where I had an erection), after I'd been there a few times, would just cover my crack (and just my penis on other side) w a towel that was like a small hand towel or large washcloth.
If I were u, I think I'd just clear the air by saying, 'this is my first massage. I'm kind of nervous about getting an erection. U won't think I'm a perv if that happens, will u?'
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Be brave and go naked. I got my first full body massage around 4 months ago and have been going every month since. It isn't as enjoyable with underwear on, as I went for my first time only, though I recommend you ask the therapist before you go or awkwardness might happen.
Going with or without drapes doesn't really matter, but in the case of an erection it will show either way. Don't worry about that - I guarantee you will get an erection but the therapist will be used to it. You think you'll be the first guy to ever get a full body massage?
If you are VERY nervous, you could go with underwear for the first time, just to see how it feels, but I believe my first time was just a waste of money and wasn't as good as the times I went naked.
About the massage, I don't know if you expected that or not, but you will not get a genital massage, only around it (The hips, etc...). My favorite part of the massage is the lower back though. It's much more enjoying without the underwear rubber around it.
Yours truly,
Jon
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