Am I gay/bisexual/straight? advice/help?!
Question: Am I gay/bisexual/straight? advice/help?
I currently like a boy in my grade for the past few months, i can never stop thinking about him, hes all i think about. the second i think of him i get turned on automatically. i alwys fantasize about him in sexual ways and doing different things. I like to check out guys i find attractive. When it comes to girls i hardly get turned on by them, NEVER fantasize about them i just feel like im ONLY attracted to boys. I want to get married with a girl and have kids but i want a boyfriend right now to see what its like and how it will be. If i saw a hot girl and hot boy and if i was told to choose one, i would pick the boy. i am so lost and i feel like im the only person having this problem. when i find boys attractive i alwys look at his butt and get turned on in a heartbeat but when i look at a girls i dont get turned on at all, what do i do? how do i figure out my sexuality? thank you so much.
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Hey babe alot of men and woman go through this especially as a teenager u are normal. xx
By what you have written you are more sexually turned on by boys more than girls, which is fine but you don't have to label yourself as anything. Your young experimenting SAFELY is all you can do to find out what your preference is.
Crushes are great but its even better if the person feels the same way, because you are the same sex it can be alot harder.
Really your best advice is to talk to someone who has been in the same situation who can give you advice or even how to meet new people who share the same interest.
NEVER BE ASHAMED OF WHO YOU ARE HONEY XX
Good luck xx
Well, if you're turned on by boys, you're gay. You don't seem to be turned on by girls, but you want to lead a "normal life" (wife, kids, etc). Methinks you're gay and you just have to get comfortable with your sexuality. But that's just an assumption, i.e I could definitely be wrong. You need to figure this out on yourself, one way or another, like experimenting.
Good luck. :]
I have the same problem. I currently have a girlfriend, but I have NO attraction to ANY girl except for that hot chick from Zombieland. I am turned only turned on by boys, and fantasise about boys all the time, but when I imagine myself in the future, I see myself married and having children. Weird.
Well, go out with a guy, and find out if you feel comfortable kissing, hugging, having a really intimate conversation, etc, then you probably are gay. But if you feel comfortable with a girl as well, then you might just be bi. So get out there and experiment! but know your limits
Which sex really gives you the "hots"? If it's males, then by all means find a guy that appeals to you and is willing and see what goes. PLEASE BE CAREFUL AND DISCREET. Make certain the guy you choose is not going to "out" you and definitely won't abuse you physically.
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dude your hormones are freaking right out...sexual confusion during this time is normal...just relax quit dwelling on it, and hey if you end u screwing a guy...well then there ya go...but really you need to relax about the whole thing
try to expirement with some otehr guy who is gay/bi or curious and will not tell anyone.
At 16 years old it is normal to have curiosity about the opposite as well as same sex. You should give both a try and that way you will know. Be safe. Try going online to a gay/bi dating site and go on a date with a guy. Mess around with him, have safe sex! You are young and the best thing is that its ok for you to try different things. You will never know unless you try. How sad would it be to deny yourself something for your entire life because you were scared to try it.
Good luck