25 years old, I enjoy mastrubation more than sex with my girlfriend?!

wow, you sound exactly like me!!
i think it's really because the sex got boring, at least for me it has.
there is absolutely no excitement, same thing every time. i've tried new approaches and have tried to do new things with him, but it just ends up the same.
i never ever think about him when i masturbate, why would i? there's no passion, no fire.
i wish i had an answer for you, but i don't have one for myself!
the thing is, is that i do love my boyfriend, i just have no urge to have sex with him at all. actually i dread the thought, but i masturbate everyday sometimes more than once, just like you, so it's not that my desire has gone down.
it's weird because i have never felt like this in any of my other relationships. i dated a guy for well over 5 years and the passion never once dwindled. the last time was just as hot as the first. we never got bored of each other.
i miss that!
blah. anyway, if you feel like it, feel free to email me, at least we could relate to each others situation!

Your situation is not normal. You need to get out of this relationship if it is not working or work on your relationship to see if it will work. Start focusing on your girl friend instead of your penis and see if things get better. Also stop the porn totally and enjoy your girl friend.
Good luck

i think its just the fantacy of another woman,even though you are not with her, it just makes you hot, and you end up masturbating. its not that you don;t love your gf, you already have her, and it don;t excite you any longer, need to spice it up,and role play..

Sounds like sex with her got routine and boredom set in. You need to step it up a notch or two. Make sex exciting again. And cut out the porn until you do.

The spark has gone out of the relationship.
Let her go and wait until you find one you can't leave alone!

Buy her some sexy lengerie and some fuzzy handcuffs and do a little role playing maybe your ugly girlfriend will look better in a mask...

You are bored of her.

I wanna play!!!!

You need to cut that masturbation out. (save it for special times away from the GF).

Go without Masturbation for a few days, or until you get really horny. Then start rubbing your GF back. that should end up with love making.

Women in a long term relationship are funny. I mean by that is that you have to do a lot of foreplay for them to get in the mood. Back rubs are usually the trick. You have to work through this phase in the relationship.

You need to honestly think about your relationship. If given the chance would you have sex with another girl?? When you are masturbating and thinking about other girls that is normal..what about when you are not..do you think about other girls?..if you do then you are not being fair to either one of you. It seems that you are no longer attracted to her as you once were. Sometimes that happens and no one is to blame.... and since you are not married it would be better to really think about your relationship now before you go any further...is she who you want to be with forever?? If not then it is not fair to either of you to keep on with the way things are you both deserve to love and be loved....think about what you would be doing if she wasn't your GF...do you like the idea??? Just be honest with yourself and then with her..when you are thinking about not being with her does that hurt you...if so then talk to her...spice things up...only you know what you are really feeling inside and if she is not the one for you anymore...you need to tell her ..life is to short to just settle....you both need to feel the same in the relationship...don't just hang on to not hurt her..that will only hurt her more....really look at your relationship...you will know the answer,,don't beat yourself up over this you feel how you feel...but just be honest with her..

There's really a few different questions here.

Is it normal to prefer masturbation to sex with someone else? Apparently it's become more and more common at any rate, especially with the Web offering so many possibilities.
Is it normal to be addicted to pornography? Any addiction is, at the least, problematic and usually has to do with thing quite far from the most obvious object. So if you seriously think you're addicted in any real sense, I'd seek counseling to, at the least, see if that's true.
But what really stand outs here is that you don't seem to desire your girl friend anymore. Which suggests deeper problems with the relationship.
Try doing a list of the things you get from the relationship and things you don't. Weight each item with a relative number in terms of its importance to you (maybe you only get companionship, but really really need that). Then add each side up and see which has the higher score.

That's one way to decide, at any rate. But certainly you should be thinking hard about your relationship in general

Brett Tonaille
"Putting It In In Paris: An Erotic Novel of the Eighties"