Can not having sex hurt a guy? Like in anyway?!


Question: Can not having sex hurt a guy? Like in anyway?
So my girlfriend and I are considering getting engaged in the near future. We are trying to wait to have sex till marriage. We are both in college full time, and we both work. To put it simply, I feel like crap because I am not having sex and all other guys are, but can not having sex hurt me physically? I know it does psychologically because I am stressed and have no release and being a guy, I need some form of it. I would like to wait for this girl because I love her and I have been good to her and I don't want to feel like I have forced myself on her. She says she wants sex, but she is still trying to wait. Is there anyway to help myself besides masturbation?

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If you guys love each other goo ahead DO it.. just do it with her and ya getting married anyways soo no worry=]



It can not hurt you in ANY way, not having sex. You could never have sex, never masturbate once. And nothing will ever happen. There's a bunch of other ways for stress release, it is not psychologically hurting you. If you really need sexual release you'll have a wet dream. Do yoga, go to the gym. There's a lot of stress relievers other than masturbation. But there's nothing wrong with jerking off! I don't see why not to do it.



it wont really hurt you. you will however have a buildup of testosterone which can lead to agression or moodiness. the only way to get release other than sex is masturbation.



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No, but don't wait. Have it now.



I would not marry a girl if i didnt kno how she was in bed first...just sayin she might be bad



me i need to f u ck pus sy evry nite



if i were you, i would lay her down and get her so wet that she couldnt resist. as a human being you need to have sex, and as a man sex is something you have wanted since junior high school. you have to let her understand this. if she still says no than she is being very selfish. you dont want to be p*ssy whipped your entire life do you? its not that you have to put sex over love, but the fact that youre putting love over sex just because she wants you too even though it is hurting you psychologically is bad. and once you have sex, you will find your love for her will grow.

like i said. ask her for sex. tell her that you NEED sex, because you really do in order to fit into the society we are all in. its something about maturity, and you seem more than mature enough to have it.

"I would like to wait for this girl because I love her and I have been good to her and I don't want to feel like I have forced myself on her". this is something a virgin would say. not trying to get under your skin or anything so take no offense, but once you guys bang you will realize that its not your fault you havent had sex. its hers. you date her and hold her and treat her right. you respect her decisions and make her feel good. being in a relationship, she owes you sex. men dont hangout with girls so we can kiss them. we NEED to get our ***** wet. after everything you do for her, she wont even let you play with her p*ssy?

would you drive one of your guy friends around and buy him stuff and be his b*tch for nothing in return? no, he would have to offer you something. a p*ssy is an offering. it says, you have treated me right, now i will return the favor. its so natural, there has to be give and take in any relationship.

right now, either she gives or you take. if shes not buying it, than drop her and find a girl that will have sex with you. you honestly wont regret it.



To answer your question, going prolonged periods of time without an ejaculation is what is unhealthy as it has statistically shown to increase your risk of prostate cancer. So it's not strictly lack of sex that will cause health problems. However, I don't think it's something you have to specifically worry about. College can be a really hard place to NOT be having sex because it seems as though every one else is doing it. If you and your girlfriend are seriously trying to wait until marriage to have sex, I'd have to say kudos for you both since that's almost impossible in this day and age.




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