Marijuana, Alcohol, and Gambling addiction.?!
Question: Marijuana, Alcohol, and Gambling addiction.?
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He needs rehab treatment, but he won't quit until he wants to. You can't make him.
Why is it that good women love bad men, or good men love bad women. Is it that we feel we are responsible for things that we are not? You love him, but you have to be care full of your own mental health. Maybe you should see a councilor and talk about boundaries, because loving someone like this, will test those boundaries.
It is like this, you either create strong boundaries, get help or leave. Or you will start smoking, drinking and drowning together. He may care more about his needs, than your love.
Move on to greener pastures. All he will ever give you is heartache.
He will never change. Nothing you can do to help him. He must realize he has problems & make a commitment to HIMSELF to make improvements - or it will never come to pass.
Why put yourself thru all the grief the rest of your life.
He will promise you the moon - but he cannot help himself until he admits he has problems & does something about it.
Life is not always the way it's supposed to be. It's just the way it is. The way you cope with it is what makes the difference.
Try and get him to cut down on drinking first and foremost. Unlike alcohol you cant overdose on marijuana so its the least harmful of the two.