Question:
My penis wont get hard!!!?
well im 19 years old ive been wit my gf for almost 3 months and we began having since before we started dating, its been like 4 months wit sexual activiy. at the beggining , i didnt have any problem at all , my penis would just get hard , very hard within less than 30 secons just by kissing her or touching but now , since 3 weeks ago , my dick wont work , i mean sometimes it just wont get erect and when its getting hard then i think of my problem i guess and i wont get erect, and the more i think about the more i get frustrated, however , if i dont think about it , then everything goes good , i get my penis hard easily but if i think about this , that my dick will shrunk , then that happen , its pretty embarrased. is it because of stress?? and because i think about that while having sex?? by the way , 3 days ago i had a good sex and i did not think of my penis and everything went good... in the mornings or during the night , i wake up and my dick is really really hard but when im about to have sex and i think of it , it just will get flacid ... any tips or advice would b helpful , some people say relax but i need a tip to relax and so i wont think about this
Answers:
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try thinking of naked guys while you do her
Hey There Sweetie,
My name is Grandma L. Sounds like you are in a pretty difficult situation... Sorry to hear about it. Back in my day, my husband had the same issue. The bastard just couldn't get it up. So, I have some pretty solid advice! Now, this might sound a bit weird but you have rub "down there" in some mayonnaise. You have to do it every night for about a week (maybe two if you have balding hair). PLEASE TRY IT before you doubt it.
XO XO Grandma L
yup if you get hard when your asleep then its not a biological problem. Purely psychological. The answer is as simple as you psyching yourself out. And maybe boredom with the sex. Try experimenting with her
stop doing it in couple of time after you really really want to do it ur be very exited it will be hard