Why doesn't he tell me I'm beautiful anymore?!


Question: Why doesn't he tell me I'm beautiful anymore?
We've been together for four months. I think we have a good relationship, we have a lot of fun together, we still go out on dates, and have a healthy sex life. There is one thing I have a problem with. I pull out all the stops to be beautiful for him. Even the painful stuff (can you say bikini wax?) I get my hair done, nails, tanning, I buy lingerie, and do everything I can to make things fun in bed. (Interesting positions, role playing, swallowing, you name it and I have done it) The only problem is he doesn't tell me I'm pretty any more. He does nice things for me and he loves me, but I feel a little unappreciated and taken for granted. What can I do to get over it?

Answers:

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Some men (boys) have a hard time expressing themselves. Also, some say all the right things, but do all the wrong things. It is more important that he treats you good, but I can see your point about wanting to hear it. Have you tried asking him why he isn't more expressive? It is possible that he is just that way, meaning he isn't the type to give compliments.
I tell my wife every single day that she is beautiful, however I know some of my friends who rarely if ever say that to their wives, girlfriends.
Anyways, I would be more concerned about his actions than his words. The other thought I am having is that you say you do everything you can for him. Is it possible that you are making it too easy? Not saying that you shoudn't do nice things, but if he used to tell you sweet things all the time maybe he was trying to get something. Now that he has it, maybe he doesn't feel the need to butter you up.

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(NOT JUDGING OR ARGUING)
Wow four months? If you want to be beautiful for him you should have waited a lot longer when you got married. Putting out really soon is often an ugly thing to guys. I feel sorry for you. Swallowing and spreading your legs is not the way you can get love. I feel you're being taken advantage of. If he really thought you were beautiful he would have valued your body, had some respect for you and waited. Obviously your parents failed in this subject during your childhood. I wish the best for you and hope you find a real man who truly loves you.

Josh.


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