why does it take my boyfriend so long to ***?!

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Some men do just take a little time, and 30 minutes really is a pretty good time if I'm honest.

However, if you'd rather he come in five minutes there are some pointers to look out for:

Drugs, particularly some anti-depressants can make it difficult to climax, in addition some recreational drugs can affect a mans ability to get hard (Pilly Willy) or in the case of opiate drugs and alcohol, numb the penis.

Other reasons for the length of time can simply be nerves or just level of arousal, both of which can be helped by having an open and honest conversation about what he likes.

Other than that I'd say don't worry about it unless it's causing you trouble - perhaps he's trying to last a little longer for you to enjoy it - if it were three or four hours I'd understand but you really have nothing to be worried about - certainly as you've only slept with one other man and so have no real base for comparison.

Haley you have a man that does not blow in 2-5 minutes and your complaining? Most women would love to have a guy that goes 30 + minutes. Is it a problem because i probably can name 20 women out her that complain thier man blows his goo practicly upon insertion. then is sounds like he has a big man tool if he had a hard time getting it in you. My advise dump him and find yourself a quick shooter and be happy


sean

Haley,

You have found yourself a keeper. DO NOT let him get away. Finding a guy that can actually last a while during sex is hard to do. The majority of guys can only go about 3-4 minutes before they shoot, leaving most of us girls high and dry. I love a many who gan last long enough for me to get off three or four times. If you ever decide you don't want him any more, just send him my way!

...maybe he's Gay !

u could be
that has no effect
u r small/tight
low sperm count
both of you