I am 16 years old and am having medical problems due to sex.?!
Question: I am 16 years old and am having medical problems due to sex.?
Thursday we had sex again. We did not finish with anal that day. We did anal for about 5 minutes and then I gave him a handjob to point of ejaculation.
Since Thursday, my butt hole has had cuts and whenever I use the restroom and wipe myself, there is blood on the toilet paper sometimes and it feels like I have hemeroids. My butt hole ALWAYS hurts too. Whenever I pass gas, it comes out very wet sounding like when I push out the semen, but there is no semen in my anus.
What is wrong with me? Will this go away after a while or should I see a doctor? I really don't want to see a doctor since this is very embarrasing being that I have to let my parents know that I'm bisexual and sexually active. How long should I let this pass before I see a doctor?
My partner does not have any STDs or anything like that.
Answers:
Your bum just needs time to heal. What you are going through is normal for what you did. The anus is not meant really for having anything shoved up it. Not being moralistic here, just stating a fact.
Your partner was way to rough on you, and should have treated you better than that for your first time.
He should have been more gentle, and loosed you up first with his fingers and plenty of lube.
You should lay off the sex for a while until you have healed, and then take it very easy next time - nice and gentle, with plenty of lube.
Personal experience.
What you need to know is that the anus is EXTREMELY sensitive to infecton.
This said, you are going throught standard stuff. Your partner should be slower so that you can have time to relax and dialate you anus so it does not have to bleed. If he cares he will take the time.
Otherwise, WOW, enjoy!!!
Give it a rest for awhile, let things heal up.
After that you can condition yourself using an anal toy. This will help you get more used to being penetrated. You said he is rather large (girth) and he probably just tore you up a bit. Tell him to slow down and use PLENTY of lube.
I think you first need to check with your G P and get him or her to give you a referal to see a head doctor you say your 16 i wonder what your parents think of this, i think you are under age also.
Wow 16 years old or is it young?
Anal sex is the most common heterosexual activity worldwide, as a form of birth control. Leave it to them. Gay guys can have fantsatic sex without it.
probably a rupture due to the friction, and the size , not enough lube..you should be find.. he sure sould hot with that tool..wow! be careful
Your partner was too rough. If you're going to have anal sex and don't have a lot of experience you might try a hot bath beforehand. This will relax your anal muscles, but your partner should still take it slowly and use a condom with lots of lube. The anal sphincter is designed to remove waste, not to receive another penis. Therefore, it doesn't just relax and open up for anal sex. Here's a tip...if your partner places his penis on your anus for about a minute without penatrating your sphincter will relax. You can sometime end up with an anal fissure, which is like a tear in the anal sphincter which is why someone with a fissure can end up with pain and some blood when passing a stool. Each time the sphincter opens up when you go to the toilet, it stretches the fissure tear to open up causing the blood. It's like having a small cut in the corner of your mouth and then when you open your mouth it hurts.