how to "edge" the right way?!

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You just jack it as normal; when you get close you take it down and slow down and keep it steady, but let the edge or orgasm subside and build up again. You'll feel it build up inside and when your ready, you're going to explode with a lot of semen and a huge orgasm.

You got the same answer from Ron that I would have gave you but I will add that you should try to edge as long as possible before you come, i.e. to not be in any hurry to come but keep doing it and enjoy the pleasure of masturbating. I like going from one erotic picture or video to another and jack off until I get close and stop stroking it right before coming but I keep my hand on my penis and sometimes I have to squeeze it back at the base of my penis to keep from shooting off a load but you can feel it throbbing right before you get ready to shoot. Takes practice but you have plenty of time to practice. BTW, I've done it for 3-4 hours many times - (when my wife wasn't home) lol

Definitely practice Kegel exercises. It'll help you last longer in bed and increase your load by a lot. Right when you think you're about to *** use your PC muscles that you strengthen with Kegel exercises to hold the c u m back. When you actually do orgasm it will be more than you imagine. Also try not masterbating for a while, that's another factor of increasing your load.


Kegel video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4TArqSDav…

Experience and it worked for me

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