Having problems with sex?!


Question: Having problems with sex?
I'm 21 and a virgin. I have been with this awesome girl for about 2 and half months. For the last month and a half we have been fooling around. I decided recently that I was ready to make love to her. The first time I tried I had an erection but lost it shortly after I put the condom on. The second time I had an erection but as soon as we decided to try it, I lost my erection again. I can easily get an erection if our play is more innocent, but as soon as I make the conscious decision to make love to her, my body just seems to shut down. I have never had any trouble maintaining an erection in the past so I am a bit confused to what is going on. Any advice?

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Its putting the condom on... It ruin the romance. Suggest she goes on the pill if you trust her that she doesn't have any infections... Then you can just carry on going till your ready :)

My bf had the same problem



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First of all you are a nervous one. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being nervous. You yourself know that your girlfriend doesn't turn you off it's just that little problem you have to get over. Be yourself, relax but most importantly have some foreplay before sex that way you get in the mood and it won't go down. Have some oral sex, put on some music, dim the lights. Well ill let figure out the rest =)



You are probably just getting nervous. Maybe have her put on the condom for you and see if that helps.



nerves, chill, keep playing as you put the condom on



Put the rubber on 1st....



MAN UP AND HAVE SEX WITH HER




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