Why does my best friend get sexually aroused almost everytime we talk?!


Question: Why does my best friend get sexually aroused almost everytime we talk?
I'm a girl btw! We're both 16. He has a girlfriend and theyve been going out for a couple months now. I've always had a crush on him. And in the past few months everytime just me and him hang out...he gets well...he gets hard on. I dont do anything sexy or anything like that. His body tenses up...and then he's like "Damn it, I'm hard" Everytime he says this I don't really know what to do...Please tell me why he gets this way when we hang out.


He's always like, "I wish you could suck it." And we have had cyber sex and phone sex together. But we're both virgins. We both sort of get swept up and thats how we did it together, but everytime after we do it, he says we're never gonna do it again. But then he always seems to call me or text me when he's turned on.

He's never been the disrespectful type or the kind to cheat so it really confuses me. And when he says "I want you to suck me" I always say to him that he should just go to his girlfriend for that. Then he laughs and says I'm being funny and cute. Also, I asked him what was I doing that turned him on and he said "Just you in general"

I honestly don't know what has gotten into him lately. He never ever used to act this way. He always gets jealous when I'm around other guys and he gets mad even when I'm giggling with some of my friends who are girls. I can't ask him a lot of things because he is very moody and short-tempered. Please help me, I'm so confused!

Answers:

He likes you and he wants to have sex with you.

It seems you like him too.

He should know if he wants his current g/f or not.

In short, he's yours if you want him. Up to two of you where you wanna take it.



sounds like he is attracted to you.

And a lot of it is hormones. Its very easy around that age to "get into the mood quick", not much you can do about it but, obviously he is attracted to you on a physical level.



First of all you are just a girl, you will NEVER understand. It feels so awesome to have a stiff member.
He's healthy.
I sure hell wish I still had that drive.

You are not as innocent than you think you are, don't kid yourself.
A normal girl is just as dirty.



He is probably having under-lying problems with his girl friend and you been his best friend you are close to him so he thinks he can rely on you and as he is 16 he probably gets hard over everything.

personal experience



seems like he cares about you more than a friend and every guy has a 2 year annoyance of surprise stiffies and occasionally are painful



Sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too! Tell him you want a guy for yourself exclusively, not one who is sharing himself with every "loose" girl on campus!



he is a man that is why.



ok what u do IS cheating. ur leading him on. seriously, if he really was JUST a friend u would never have done those things, u wouldn't say u have a crush on him and u wouldn't be trying to blame him. either he breaks it with his gf or u two should stop hanging out!



your friend has shifted feellings for you from his girlfriend to you he may not admit it now but i think you will eventually get together. A Word of CAUTION do not turn your relationship to a FWB relationship Freind With Benifits meaning just a sexual physical relationship because someone always gets hurt. If you want to stay friends with him do not date him or become his girlfriend because when you break up it never is the same


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